You know what I used to believe? Self improvement.
Sounds so sweet.. having control over your fate thru discipline and hard work, unwillingness to give in.
But heres the reality. What are you really chasing? If its hard work itself congrads you shouldnt be reading this one. But eventually we relate self improvement with our self worth. In other words we get attrached to materialistic success. Thats why after all those gym sessions after all those dates you still feel void.
This year I realized self improvement is another sweet distraction from reality, called Jesus.