Oct 15 • Sharing wins
Coaching experience for the day
We started at 0base. no approaching experience at all. So needed to solve approach anxiety first, then gradually get into flow and get numbers.
surprizingly he got his first number on the first try!! This is how we did it.
- Changing fear into excitement(state control)
Biggest reason beginners cant approach is bc they dont know how to feel good about themselves. Surprizingly women can see right thru. So we hyped ourselves up for small things. comming out and approaching. asking directions before approach.
2. giving leeway to walk away
There was a point where he couldn't approach a girl(chinese). He said he wanted to try the next person but we still did it. So gave him instructions to just say 'hey excuse me' and ask for directions if feeling pressured. He went above and beyond. asking for the number and got it!!
3. Extending the conversation
He just said hey you look cute then went for the number. but not all girls would be willing to give their number if you dont have a good conversation. so next homework is getting him to at least start asking questions.
'how old are you?' 'where are you from' etc..
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Coaching experience for the day
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