Oct 16 • Sharing wins
5 approaches yesterday, many today
I was out at a famous club in Bali yesterday, approached 3 girls there, 1 at the airport and went on a "date"/meetup with one that I knew through a mutual friend.
I kissed one of the girls, and one of them on the cheek - both in the club.
However, both ghosted me on IG after (I took until the morning to write them).
--> Learning: message immediately (within 1 hour) after leaving her at the club
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Today, I complimented a girl on the street, approached 2 girls at a café, and with one of them we were actually talking about doing bourdoir photography - which we are both interested in.
We then made plans to meet up in thr rvening, and i messaged her on IG "Amazing! So we're going on a date?" To show intent.
Then she didnt respond for almost an hour, and has been responding slowly since.
I also went out to the beach with my camera, asking random people to take their pictures. I got 6 girls ans 3 guys in front of the camera in total, but with those, I also didn't get anywhere from it, since I didn't manage to turn the conversation sexual.
So I'm not really lacking the confidence, I feel I'm mostly lacking the strategy. Especially since most people wanna talk to me, but it's almost always only in a platonic way.
--> Learning: Drop more bold lines, be more upfront with my intentions
--> Excercise for myself tonight: Go to the club and be VERY obviously sexually. I will keep you updated on the results.
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5 approaches yesterday, many today
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