19d • Mindset
CAN YOU SEE IT?
Everyone talks about their “goal weight.”
But here’s the real truth nobody wants to touch:
If you can’t see yourself at your goal… it’s not because you’re incapable.
It’s because you’re afraid.
Afraid of what?
Afraid to reach for something bigger than the version of you you’ve been living as.
Afraid that if you really try… and it doesn’t work…
people will notice.
They’ll see the attempt.
They’ll see the struggle.
They’ll see the “failure.”
So it feels safer to keep the dream blurry —
to never fully picture it,
to never fully commit,
to never fully risk being seen trying.
But here’s the punch in the gut:
You’re not afraid of the goal.
You’re afraid of being exposed.
Afraid of being judged.
Afraid of disappointing yourself again.
Afraid of proving your doubts right.
Afraid of letting people watch you go after something you’ve convinced yourself you don’t deserve.
So instead of visualizing success,
you keep recycling the same old identity:
“I’ve always been this way.”
“I never stick to it.”
“I don’t know if I can.”
“I’ll try again later.”
But here’s the truth that changes everything:
The only reason you can’t see the new you
is because you’re still holding on to the old one.
You’ve replayed that version for so many years
that anything different feels like a lie.
So let’s flip it:
What if the real lie is the voice saying you can’t change?
What if the fear isn’t a warning —
it’s a sign you’re finally aiming at something real?
Something uncomfortable.
Something honest.
Something that actually matters.
Because let’s be brutally honest for a second:
People already notice.
They already see you struggling.
They already know you’re hurting inside your own skin.
What they haven’t seen yet
is you choosing yourself.
Not halfway.
Not “I’ll start Monday.”
Not “when life settles down.”
Right now.
Fully.
Deliberately.
Visibly.
Your goal weight isn’t just a number —
it’s a version of you who is no longer ruled by fear.
So ask yourself again,
with honesty this time:
Can you see it?
Or are you still hiding from the possibility that you could actually succeed?
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