A lot of Christian men say they want to lead.
But what they really want is comfort.
Scripture is straight about this: milk is for infants. Meat is for the mature.(Hebrews 5)
Milk says: Encourage me.
Meat says: Correct me.
Milk wants feelings.
Meat wants character.
You cannot lead a marriage, a blended family, or a household on milk.
Leadership requires discernment, discipline, restraint, and responsibility, and those only grow when you chew on hard truth.
If every challenge feels offensive, every boundary feels hard, and every standard gets in the way, you’re not being persecuted, you’re being underdeveloped.
Strong families are led by men who can digest meat.
Not because it tastes good.
But because it builds strength.
The question isn’t just “Are you saved?"
It’s also “Are you grown?”
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A lot of Christian men say they want to lead.
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