We all know the pattern. You’ll be tired or upset about anything and your wife will want to unload her emotions around a scenario. You’ll blow up or get cold both are harsh and bitter towards your wife. This cycle of conflict is never helpful for growth or connection. I have an approach that may change things. Take a moment and just listen. Don’t make a decision don’t come up with a solution just listen. Once you’re done listening to what she wants to say ask a question or dig deeper. Clarify your understanding. Col 3:19 says men love your wives and never be harsh with her.