Do one small thing today to let your wife know she’s on your mind when she’s not around.
Are you tired of the same fights over and over again? Confucius says that life is so simple and yet we insist on making it difficult! The next time the same fight pops up - breathe - take a moment. Listen to her. Ask a probing question after she’s done sharing. Do not take the bait of feeling attacked. Provide the space that she needs to get those emotions and thoughts out. Let her lay it all out regarding the conflict. Then you share your thoughts and feelings. Is there a 3rd way to look at it in order to move forward from this obstacle of connection? Check out my
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