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Hello and welcome to Soft and Selective✨
I know why you're here. You're tired of shrinking yourself to keep him interested. Tired of overthinking every text and wondering why you always care more. The answer isn't to care less. It's to become the woman who never has to chase. That's what we do inside Alora. 🧭 How to Start 1. Download the Alora App Your confidence coach in your pocket. Daily challenges, Calm Drops, and Ask Maureen anytime. 2. Track & Reflect Build your Love Score. Notice the patterns. Meet the version of you that's been waiting underneath. 3. Share Your Story Post your wins, your struggles, the text you didn't send. Be honest. This is your community. 4. Connect Comment, message, find your people. Women who get it, rooting for exactly who you're becoming. 5. Keep Going Every time you choose yourself, you get stronger. Soon you won't recognize the woman who used to settle. 🎯 Your First Assignment Hit "make post" and introduce yourself. Tell us what brought you here and who you're ready to become. Welcome. I'm soooo happy you're here. 🤍
Hello and welcome to Soft and Selective✨
I want your brutally honest opinions :)
Okay ladies, I need your help with something and I want you to be brutally honest with me. 🥹 You guys are literally the reason Alora exists. Every feature, every challenge, every word in the app was built thinking about you. And lately I've been sitting with this question: is it actually working for you? Like really working. Not "yeah it's cute" working. But "this changed how I show up in my relationship" working. I want to know everything. What's the one feature you open the app for? What's the thing you wish it did but it doesn't yet? Is there a moment recently where Alora helped you say something different, walk away from something, hold a standard, feel less crazy at 2am when you couldn't stop overthinking his text? Or honestly - is there something that's annoying you? A challenge that didn't land? Advice that felt off? A feature that feels broken or pointless? I want the messy honest feedback more than the nice stuff. I can't fix what I don't know about, and I'd rather hear it from you than read it in a 2-star review. Niklavs and I are heads down on the next sprint and your answers literally shape what we build next. We've been going hard - personalized home screens, AI-recommended challenges, 130 new ones, voice input is here - but I don't want to keep guessing. I want to build what you actually need. Drop a comment here, I read every single one. 💗 Tell me: 1. What's working? 2. What's missing? 3. What would make you tell every single one of your friends to download it tomorrow? I love you guys. Truly. None of this exists without you. Maureen :)
I want your brutally honest opinions :)
Greetings
Hiii everyone! 👋🏻 My name is Ruzeth and I'm an actress/artist from South Africa. I just finished my business degree and am busy writing a feature film which I plan to produce in the near future. I'm excited to learn from Maureen so I can excel personally and professionally, and I'd love to connect with you girls and support you! 🦢🤗💗 Honestly, I don't think I can choose any one favorite book, so I'm going to list a few. When it comes to fiction, Jennifer Lynn Barnes' Inheritance Games book series is impeccable. And who doesn't love Jane Austen's Pride & Prejudice? Some of my favorite business-related books include Mainstreet Millionaire (Codie Sanchez), Emotion by Design (Greg Hoffman), Diary of a CEO (Steven Bartlett), and Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss). Then in terms of psychology, I greatly enjoyed Becoming Bulletproof (Evy Poumpouras) and The Laws of Human Nature (Robert Green). My personal favorite in psychology, however, is Please Understand Me II (David Keirsey); in my opinion, it is THE best resource on understanding different personality types holistically. Finally, a book that changed my life this year is Maribel Franchesca's Before the World Named You. She dives deep into how the social media, social circles, and comparison (among other things) distort your identity, and more importantly, how to uncover your identity underneath all the labels and lies. Thank you for reading, let me know if you've read one of these books, or plan to!
New feature coming! Husband Potential Score
Okay ladies, I had the idea of adding something like a Husband Material Score, where you can upload text messages from him, maybe his dating profile information about him. The more you upload, the more accurate it is, and then we'll rank him on his ability to communicate and his emotional IQ and a bunch of other metrics. We'll give him a Husband Material Score. I made a rough draft idea before we build it out with our designer and Niklavs. I'd love to know what features you'd like added to this as we build it into Alora. I think it's going to be so much fun to have this. Also, if you're dating and you have multiple men in mind, I was thinking maybe you could add multiple men to see how they compare. You have a place where you can be vulnerable and honest about how he's making you feel and keep track of if the relationship is getting better or worse. Whats one thing you'd like this husband score to include? Also any other features you want added or removed from Alora? Im all ears
New feature coming! Husband Potential Score
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Hi ladies 🦢🩷🦢 I'm Tereza (26) and come from Slovakia. I have been living in the capital of Czech Republic Prague since I started university there. I graduated last year in September and work now as a software developer 💻 Currently I'm not dating or looking for a relationship because I have recently experienced a break up after over 4 years together. I want to focus on myself now and show myself that I can have a full life without some guy in it 👸 Then, when I'm ready and Mr. Right comes along the way he is more than welcomed to share the journey 😁 Now I'm reading some books about manifestation and how our mindset shapes our reality (they are only in Slovak). I plan to read The Biology of Belief. From classics I like Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice, and Animal Farm. And my childhood and teenage favorite is Harry Potter which I read many times 🪄 And I do have a very tiny dog called Hermiona, she is 1 year old 🐕
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