Let’s Talk About Perfectionism
Especially as it pertains to strength and weakness 😬 I used to think perfectionism was a badge of honor. For so many high-achieving women of faith (myself included) perfectionism shows up aa excellence, ambition, and responsibility. You’re the one people rely on. You take control of a situation when you need to. You catch the details others miss. You hold yourself to high standards because you care deeply. You motivate, you inspire, you move with intentionality. That’s your strength. But let’s be honest… 😬 That same drive can leave you burned out, anxious, procrastinating, and quietly wondering if you’ll ever be enough. My parents used to tell me it was “in my head,” which then felt like gaslighting. My husband told me I “care too much what other people think” and that one stopped me dead in my tracks. I’ve never cared what other people think… have I? And here’s the silent weakness… perfectionism will cause you to start overthinking every post, every offer, every decision, because if it’s not perfect, it feels like failure. Even if you’re not consciously seeking approval from others… perfectionism IS unchecked pride. It leads to paralyzation for purpose in the name of “quality” and can hold you back from progress. And even worse, it can become a prison. Of expectations. Of unrealistic standards. And of remorse or shame towards others who don’t have the same standards as you… 🔁 This is the duality: What makes you powerful can also paralyze you. Perfectionism rooted in grace brings maturity. Perfectionism rooted in fear brings misery. God never asked for flawlessness. He asked for faithfulness. He said His power is made perfect in weakness. That means your cracks aren’t a liability, but an opportunity for His glory shines through (if you’ll let Him). 🪞 So here’s my invitation to you today: Reflect on your greatest strength? Maybe it’s not perfectionism. But what is the quality you most admire about yourself that could also lead to unintentional blind spots?