I find as I am getting older, the less I care about what otters think or how they feel. Being a caregiver my whole life I was taught that if you’re put in this position even at a young age that you’re being disrespectful if you go against what everyone else wants. There comes a point in time of your life when you have to do what’s best for you even at the expense upsetting other people or hurting their feelings. You would think the person that cared for everyone else would know how to set boundaries, but it’s hard harder than it looks. At the end of the day, somebody’s gonna be upset, so why does it have to be you? Thoughts and comments?