Today is Thanksgiving Sunday, and it’s my Dad’s heavenly birthday. Six years ago, on October 11, 2020, I wrote a reflection about my relationship with him. At the time, I was recognizing how much of my life I’d spent seeking his love, approval, and acceptance, and how my own inner work had helped me see our relationship differently. My Dad married my Mom and adopted my sister Margot and me when I was three. Because of him, I also have my brother Greg. There are so many layers to a life together, and not all of them are easy to understand while we’re living them. One thing I’ve come to appreciate is that love doesn’t always arrive in the form we expect or wish for. Sometimes it takes years, distance, loss, and a willingness to examine our own stories before we recognize what a relationship has taught us. Today I’m driving to Vancouver to celebrate Thanksgiving and another family birthday. My cousin’s wife shares this date with Dad. On Tuesday, my Aunt and I will travel to Vancouver Island to visit my brother and his beautiful partner. There is something lovely about spending four hours driving and remembering traveling these high mountain passes with my parents. And feeling grateful for the people who are no longer physically here, like my parents and my sister, while celebrating the people who are. What if gratitude isn’t about being thankful only for the moments we cherish? What if it is also about recognizing how the complicated ones have shaped our capacity to love, understand, and appreciate the lives we’ve been given. Happy heavenly birthday, Dad. Thank you for loving me in your way, and for being part of the woman I’ve become. As you think about the people who have shaped your life, whose love have you come to understand differently over time? Happy Thanksgiving to my Canadian friends. 💜 Trust what’s yours, Pamela

I'm heading out in the morning for a family vacation. I'll be back next Monday for Sacred Conversations with our VIPers, and Tuesday evening for our co-writing session. Until then, I'd love to leave you with this. As you listen, gently close your eyes and open yourself to receive. If it resonates with you, imagine your crown chakra opening to Divine wisdom and simply notice... What wants to flow through you? Have a beautiful week, and I'll see you soon.

A sweet little birdie (aka @Rebecca B) told me that July 17th is @Zor Zen Den is celebrating his birthday and as Rebecca wrote ... it's the 17th already in some parts of the world. Time to flood the field with love, appreciation, and gratitude for our friend, mentor, and Master Signal Operator, Zor. Zor, we're starting early and want to be the first to wish you an incredible day. Your signal is strong and I absolutely love you for your guidance, generosity, and gifts you share with all of us. Portal Pals, your assignment if you wish to accept it is to drop one TRUE SENTENCE about Zor in the comments.

🚨👨‍⚖️ REF Z HAS ISSUED THE FIRST OFFICIAL GREEN CARDS OF THE COMMUNITY SIGNATURE BATTLE! 👨‍⚖️🚨 As many of you know, the Community Signature Battle is now live across all four communities. 🎬🏆📡 (Vote here) During the voting discussions, two Signal Operators in two different communities have demonstrated something that deserves recognition. 👏👏👏 While many members were focused on voting for a single creator, these operators immediately recognized that members could support multiple creators across multiple communities while still honoring the spirit of the event. 💡👁️📡 Instead of creating division… They created connection. 🤝❤️ Instead of focusing on competition… They focused on community. 🌎💚 That kind of awareness, positivity, sportsmanship, and support is exactly what the Green Card was created to recognize. 🟢🏆 🏆 OFFICIAL GREEN CARD RECIPIENTS 🏆 🟢 @Val Vosburg 🟢 @Pamela Lynch For: ✅ Thinking outside the box ✅ Positive sportsmanship ✅ Supporting multiple communities ✅ Encouraging participation ✅ Demonstrating leadership through positivity ✅ Strengthening the signal for everyone involved Great communities are not built by competition alone. They are built by people who encourage others, support one another, and help everyone rise together. 🚀❤️ 👏👏👏 Congratulations @Val Vosburg and @Pamela Lynch ! You have officially received the FIRST GREEN CARDS ever issued by REF Z. 🟢👨‍⚖️🏆 📡 Signal Detected. 🟢 Positive Frequency Confirmed. 👁️ Awareness Verified. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🗳️ COMMUNITY SIGNATURE BATTLE VOTING IS NOW OPEN! 🗳️ 👇 CAST YOUR VOTE HERE if you have not yet 👇 🔗 VOTING LINK Vote for the video that resonates most with you. ❤️🎬📡

I just hit submit to enter our communities video in the COMMUNITY SIGNATURE BATTLE. Who else is in? Wow, that was quite the process. First, I created the most AMAZING video, only to realize commercial music is disallowed. I'll definitely release it AFTER the voting is complete so not to influence and confuse voters‼️ I am so grateful to my community members for your remarkable contributions. FOUR more sleeps until the VOTING opens. @Rositsa Aleksandrova @David R @Zor Zen Den @Fatima Teixeira