Like any old pattern, there’s usually a cue that leads to the behavior. We have an idea of what categories we overspend on, what about what time of day or emotional state? Late night, in bed, when willpower is the lowest? Midday, when we we feel physically sluggish and want to reward ourselves that we’ve done some work? When we’re bored at the airport or waiting for a friend? When we’ve got some anxiety and need a distraction? If we can notice the pattern, we can stop the pattern (that is, if you want to). Let’s hear about WHEN you’re spending unconsciously.

Tolerance for what you don’t like reveals your true standards • it isn’t what you say you want - but what you consistently allow • Late fees, unused subscriptions, undercharging or overpaying, disorganized accounts • If this showed up in a relationship, would you accept it? • Small recurring charges you ignore • Accounts you haven’t checked in months • Debt you’re afraid to look at • Overpaying or undercharging because you don’t want to deal with the confrontation This is very expensive! • The longer something goes unaddressed, the more “normal” it feels • This is how people slowly lose control without realizing it • Numbness ≠ safety - it’s often avoidance in disguise Tolerance is a decision (even if unconscious) - just like with avoidance - tolerating something you wish were different is active, not passive. You’re actually using energy to tolerate a situation you don’t like. • Every “I’ll deal with it later” is an agreement • Every ignored charge is a vote for continuation of this pattern

The first two days were about where your money lives. Today is about how money enters your life. Before you try to increase income, you need to understand your current inflow reality - in our riverbanks analogy, from what sources flow INTO our river? You cannot expand what you don’t accurately track. 1. Money comes in through specific channels 2. Those channels have timing, consistency, and behavior 3. Patterns in income determine stability and decision-making - when/where to spend, for example So where did the money come from in the last 30 days? Salary/wages? Gifts? Dividends from investments? This is crucial - bc if you did my $100k masterclass and you look at the Wheel of Wealth - you can see what levers you can press to increase the financial flow.. so Let’s hear it!

You don’t need to give me a number. I want to draw your attention to whether you know the amount or not, or whether you need to guess. What area do you need to guess at? Checkings/savings, or investments? Or don’t know how much debt you have? That can be a clue to an area you’re avoiding. And avoidance keeps us in contraction, not allowing abundance in.

40 days is not small. Most people consume, very few transform. You didn’t just show up - you stayed. That matters.. you did the work. Over the last 40 days, we have: - Looked at our beliefs about money - Faced avoidance patterns - Built awareness around decisions - Practiced gratitude and recognition - Expanded what they believe is possible This means: We are not the same person who started. Even if our bank account hasn’t changed yet → our relationship to money has, our relationship to self trust has changed → and that is the root of all external change What does abundance mean to you now? We continue our journey with the 40 days of Finacial Clarity next. Hope to see you there 💕🌈💰