It can be hard to forgive other people, the pain, the suffering they’ve caused you and you wanna hold it against them but if we don’t forgive people, we build up anger, hatred, and other evil emotions inside of our body we also tend to judge them and God tells us do not judge one another for a few judges someone I will judge you the same now that doesn’t mean you have to trust the person because trust is a lot different than forgiveness. You can forgive someone but not trust them forgiveness sets you free and God has forgiven us of all of our sin and evilness so who are we to judge others of their wrong. But I didn’t write this necessarily talk about forgiving others forgiving yourself and loving yourself is one of the hardest things that someone can do at least I think so especially when it comes to lust and porn and masturbation because you feel so much shame and guilt when it comes to it It can be a secret you hide behind people’s back. It can be a lie you tell others, but when it comes to it at least for me I feel so much guilt and shame like how could I allow myself to fall into it but mindset like that makes us think. How can I be loved which affects our relationship relationships with family, friends partner How can God forgive me of this evil act and still love me which causes us to grow away from him look at me I’m a failure. I can’t even help myself which digs us deep deeper into the hole of depression and lust it causes us to lose confidence to not stand up when we believe in and right into the enemy hands we are all made in the image of God. God is loved and forgive, us or identity is in Jesus Christ we are made perfectly in his image we are beautiful creatures of our loving God and no matter what our Lord never leaves and always forgives us all identity is in Jesus Christ and because of that I can love my identity. I can love myself. I can forgive my self because my Lord has forgiven me

Life can suck we can go through a lot of hard things that hurt things that feel like breaking into tears things that test are faith. I’ve had a good amount of times like in the video while I was breaking down I told God I put all my trust in you, but why is this happening to me and it hurt it felt like I was alone like I had no one there I felt l compelled to post this. gentlemen if you ever feel this way, never hesitate to reach out you are not a burden You are not a problem We’re here to support and love on each other to hold each other accountable be there for each other‘s highs and be there for each other‘s lows The hardest thing is at least for me is admitting when I’m hurt and not feeling like a burden on people, it’s so easy for the enemy to fill our heads with the lies that were men were supposed to be held to a certain standard and not to be a burden on someone, but if you feel this way ever never hesitate to reach out you’re not a burden you’re not a problem you’re hurting you are loved and there are people here for you. God bless you all. Thank you for allowing me to be part of this group and always remember You’re made in the image of God!

Church before work! Hope y’all are having a blessed day thank you all for the meeting again sorry to those who missed it. Looking forward to the next one! Can’t wait to continue to get to know each and every one of you God bless you all and your day

I’ve been struggling to take cold showers lately What are some ways you guys help Motivate yourself to get cold showers done?

Every time you give in, you’re not “fighting a bad habit.”You are inviting something ancient, intelligent, and hostile to sit in your mind and feed on you. You think you’re clicking a website?Scrolling a reel?Letting your imagination drift? No. You are opening a spiritual door and yelling into the dark:“COME IN. I GIVE YOU PERMISSION.” Demons don’t invade.They wait for you to crack the door.Lust is the crack. Lust Turns You Into a Host Body Demons want your HABITS.Your IMPULSES.Your NEUROLOGY. Why? Because the more you obey lust, the more your brain is shaped to follow demonic instruction without resistance. Men think the urge is theirs. No. It's installed like malware. The urge is the demon’s voice.Your compliance is the handshake. Lust Makes You a Coward Without You Knowing Demons don’t just want you addicted—they want you harmless. Lust robs your voice.Your confidence.Your aggression.Your spiritual authority.Your ability to lead.Your ability to conquer. Because as long as you’re chained in your room with your pants around your ankles,you’ll never become the man God designed to terrify the kingdom of darkness. They neuter you with your own impulses.That’s the brutality of it. Lust Is a Contract With Hell You don’t sign it with ink. You sign it with your repetition. Every fall is a signature.Every relapse is a renewal. Hell doesn’t need lawyers.They just need your agreement. And the moment you say:“I can’t help it,”“I’m weak,”“It’s just what men do,”— You’re not resisting anymore. You’re cooperating. The progression is predictable: - Lust - Addiction - Isolation - Depression - Numbness - Identity collapse - Self-hatred - Death of purpose That is the demonic life cycle.They want you alive enough to sin, dead enough to be useless. But there is hope in Christ, he sets us free by his grace. What will you choose today? https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrmKvQ26/