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Identity Reconstruction Lab

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The Identity Lab

72 members • $8/month

68 contributions to The Identity Lab
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@Latrice H Yeesss 🫰🏽🫰🏽🤩
Your Pricing Is an Identity Decision
The amount you charge for your services actually has nothing to do with the dollar amount. It’s about the level of transformation your nervous system believes you can safely facilitate and what you are open to receive in exchange for that level. In other words, it’s about your 👉🏽 identity & the internal story it holds What we call an “offer” is really a container for depth. Lowest level of depth = information. Higher level of depth = guided implementation. Deepest level = identity transformation sustained over time. Here’s an example from my previous events. Notice how the price increases as the depth increases: $8 = access $27 = proximity $499 = 1:1 personalized insight $1,111 = 9 weeks of structured identity reconstruction $3,500 = 9 weeks of identity reconstruction + 5-day immersive retreat (embodiment) Different prices. Different containers. Different levels of change. Truth💣 Different levels that I am able to hold & receive internally. These numbers change depending on who YOU believe you are. #period Low ticket doesn’t mean low value. High ticket doesn’t mean greed. They both reflect how deeply you’re prepared to go — and how deeply you’re structured to support someone through implementation. Because you can deliver information in an hour. But deep transformation requires structure, accountability, and identity stabilization. And that’s what people are paying for. When you look at your current offer or offer stack… Are your prices aligned with the depth you can truly hold? Or aligned with the version of you that feels safer staying small?
1 like • 8d
@Dr. Kimesha McDowell I have to work hard to stay out of other people’s pockets in this way 😬😭🙃
The cost
I first wanted to do this sometime around 2018. I recognized the skills earlier on however unaware what I would want to do with the skills. I have always helped others to heal in one way or another, even as a young child but unaware of what that meant truly, unaware of a gift. Tracing back to at least 2018, it’s been 2,555 days This has cost me a lot of money for nursing school! The peace of operating in my true self. This has cost me heartache as I absorbed more than I could expel for lack of wisdom regarding my calling. This has cost me pain as a result of self doubt, constantly denying self and time that I could have been focused on my own inner world instead of competing in the outer world for their paper acknowledgment (although helpful, depending) I had lost ME as a result of split identity. And a lot of sleep and confidence!
1 like • 10d
@Raymund Scates “being more of what the job required than who I knew myself to be” 🤯
Execute It
I am what I say I am and if I wasn’t then I wouldn’t say I am. Did I mention that I am a motivational speaker as well as a Universal Life Force Teacher, Healer and Energetic Life Coach? Now you know. Watch me fine tune this machine, grow and get to the dough!
Execute It
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@Raymund Scates 🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏽
Your Engagement Didn’t Drop. Your Identity Shifted.
Let me tell you a story of what happened when my engagement dropped after 2022. This didn't happen because the algorithm hated me or because I “fell off.” It happened because I shifted from speaking about strictly metaphysics into speaking & teaching about building a business. And when I made that shift, most of my audience didn’t follow. Even my own daughter noticed. She told me my emails didn’t “hit” the same. My click rate in my emails dropped, my website visitors dropped. My social media engagement dropped. But here’s what I understood (eventually).... When you shift identities, the external world has to reorganize itself. So If your identity isn’t fully anchored yet, you might interpret that reorganization as rejection. And you'll likely go into a nervous system freeze. 🥶 You might start questioning your pricing, your niche, your messaging and the platform as a whole. But what’s really happening is 👉 you are in the middle of identity reconstruction. Because YOU changed. Your audience didn't change. And your evolution is beautiful. Now here's where it gets tricky..... if you don’t stabilize that identity internally, you’ll wait for some type of external proof that you are in the NEW IDENTITY before you make your next move. Meaning, if you are not getting the engagement (which APPEARS like external validation) you will just stay stuck between the old identity and new one..... again, this is a nervous system freeze 🥶 And it's happening because you're waiting for external validation. That’s why some people sit for years with very little movement. They are waiting for the external world to acknowledge that they shifted identities. When that happened to me?.... I did not wait. I went to another platform (Tiktok). I planned events that anchored me in the new identity and let my vibration gather the people. I hosted my first MAJOR business centered event where I bought in 2 additional speakers. At this point, I am not just a speaker. I am an event host who puts other speakers on the stage with me. (FYI I still did not see myself as this at the time)
1 like • 13d
@Myeishia Lewis I noticed that as well 🌟
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Tomeka Howell
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@tomeka-howell-8187
Currently a small business owner and psychotherapist (LCSW), parent of 2 young adults and loving all things esoteric, mystical and metaphysical.

Active 17h ago
Joined Nov 13, 2025