Hi Everyone 👋 I know many of you are Skool community owners, so I’d like to ask you how things are going for you. I’d love to see your honest comments too. Also, if you are not a Skool community owners, what are you looking for on Skool?

Hi Everyone 👋 Last time we talked about the cages we build—the invisible ones made of shoulds, algorithms, curated identities, and the exhausting hustle. We looked at the gates and realised we'd been holding the key all along. But here's what I've noticed. Seeing the cage is one thing. .... Actually walking out of it? That's where it gets real. Because the cage is comfortable. Familiar. Safe, even..... And the world outside? It's uncertain. Unpredictable. There's no guarantee you'll land on your feet. So we stay. We know we're stuck, but at least we know the territory. We tell ourselves: Maybe it's not that bad. Maybe things will get better. Maybe I just need to try harder. But trying harder isn't the answer. It never was. That's the trap. We think if we just push more, grind more, force more, we'll eventually break through. But the cage doesn't open from the inside with more effort. It opens when we stop pushing and start paying attention. So what does that actually look like? First, we stop. Not forever. Just for a moment. We pause the doing and let ourselves be. No agenda. No fixing. Just sitting with whatever's there, the discomfort, the fear, the exhaustion we've been running from. It's uncomfortable. Really uncomfortable. Because when you stop, you feel everything you've been avoiding. But you can't change direction while you're still moving. Second, we question the story. I can't leave this job, I need the money. I can't end this relationship; I'll be alone. I can't change now, it's too late. Are those facts or beliefs? Because beliefs can be examined. And once examined, they can be released. I spent years chasing things I thought would make me happy. Status. Money. Validation. And when I got them?...... Empty. Because I was chasing someone else's dream. The real work is asking.... What do I actually want? Not what I've been told to want. What do I, deep down, truly long for? Third, we let go of the timeline. We've been conditioned to believe that by 30, 40, 50, we should have it all figured out. That we should be "there" by now.

Ive just set up a new blog, I would love for you to join me there ❤️https://open.substack.com/pub/marklawrence541954/p/hi-everyone-im-mark?r=8o4b8l&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

So, so sorry everyone, but I needed to cancel today’s live call as I have severe stomach pains 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻.