Majority of Self-Help is you being taught to make small incremental changes. The turning point of my life came when my brain asked me "How many more have to die before you truly start living?" Ill tell you more about what was happening in my life during this time. Becoming 1% better everyday. That in itself is obnoxiously stupid as a framework. Why? Simply because it doesn't exist or work in the human change model. Think back on your life for a moment. Any lasting permanent change likely came from experiencing extreme emotion and an extreme change in circumstances. You lost someone you loved. You moved to a brand new place. Everything around you changed. I will repeat it again "No Change Ever Worth Having Comes Slowly" It comes to you at speed. It cripples and overwhelms you at first then it becomes all you know. I started taking life seriously because 2 people I looked up to died in the span of a year. There was too much emotion. Like broken glass. You can never put glass back to the way it was after its broken. In other words, I just couldn't go back to the way life was. There was nothing to go back to. Life, from that point on, doesn't become 1% better everyday, it expands in strides and leaps. You get rapidly Hyperleaped into a new life. Your entire Identity shifts. The very essence of what it means to be you changes. This is what you want. A deep profound Identity Shift. Where your entire Perception of Life shifts. P.S I wrote a whole thing on IDENTITY SHIFTING if you are interested in the PDF, just comment IDENTITY below.