We will be rescheduling our Purpose Map Discussion to:📅 Wednesday, March 25, 2026🕖 7:00 PM This will give everyone additional time to thoughtfully complete the exercise and come prepared for a powerful conversation. 🗺️ Purpose Map Reminder If you have not completed your Purpose Map, please make this a priority this week. You can find it in the Resources & Tools section inside the classroom. 🌿 Why This Exercise Matters The Purpose Map is not just another assignment—it is a clarity tool. It helps you: ✔ Connect your identity to your purpose✔ Recognize what God has already placed inside of you✔ See patterns in your life, gifts, and passions✔ Gain direction instead of feeling stuck or uncertain Many women struggle with purpose because they are trying to figure out what to do without first understanding who they are. This exercise slows you down and allows you to see yourself clearly, so your next steps can be intentional and aligned. ✨ Come Prepared When we meet, we will: • Discuss what you discovered• Bring clarity to your answers• Help you connect the dots• Strengthen your confidence in your direction 🌸 Take your time. Be honest. Go deep.This is about discovery, not perfection. I’m excited to walk through this with you all next week! 💕

Tonight was indescribable but necessary. If you missed class, you can re listen here for the next 14 days...

Dr. Tami Robinson, the Traumatologist will be with us to discuss how trauma reshapes and reframes your identity. Meet me here at 7pm in skool...

Sometimes the wounds that shape us the most are not loud or dramatic. They are quiet experiences that happen early in life, often in the places where we first learned what love, safety, and connection were supposed to feel like. A father fracture or mother fracture refers to the emotional wounds that develop when a parent is absent, inconsistent, unsafe, overly critical, emotionally unavailable, or unable to provide the nurturing and protection a child needs. These fractures do not always come from intentional harm. Many parents were simply carrying wounds of their own. But to a child, the impact is still real. In early childhood, these fractures can look like: • feeling unseen or emotionally unsupported • learning to suppress feelings to avoid conflict • trying to earn love through performance or perfection • growing up too quickly and becoming “the strong one” • developing fear of rejection or abandonment Children naturally look to their parents to understand who they are and how relationships work. When that foundation is fractured, it can quietly shape how we relate to others later in life. A father fracture often affects how a woman relates to men. She may deeply desire love and protection, yet struggle to trust it when it appears. She may tolerate unhealthy behavior in relationships because part of her still longs for the validation or presence she once needed from her father. Sometimes it can show up as choosing emotionally unavailable partners, overextending to prove her worth, or struggling to feel safe receiving love. A mother fracture often affects how a woman relates to other women. If a woman experienced criticism, emotional distance, competition, or instability in her relationship with her mother, she may unconsciously approach female relationships with caution. She may struggle to trust women, feel guarded in sisterhood, or find it difficult to believe that women can genuinely support and celebrate one another. These fractures can also influence how we make choices and decisions.

Sadly, many women struggle with identity because they present themselves through a false image. Then they remain confused when the kind of man they truly desire is not attracted to them. Instead, they attract men who are drawn to the false version they are presenting. This is the result of the spirit of perversion. It is often accompanied by a flirting spirit, a spirit of promiscuity, a spirit of seduction, and a spirit of low self-esteem. In many cases, it is rooted in some form of perversion that entered a woman’s life early and stole her innocence as a child. This spirit teaches women to use their sexuality to get what they want. It influences how they dress, how they speak, and how they present themselves. Then they become upset when they attract men who only want their bodies. But when your presentation is shaped by perversion, it will always draw the wrong kind of attention. The spirit of perversion is also accompanied by manipulation and sabotage. It manipulates others for temporary gain, but it also sabotages your ability to attract the kind of man you truly need. It distorts your perception of identity and reality. It creates confusion. You say you want one thing, yet you present yourself as though you want something else. The first thing you must be willing to accept is that your identity has been distorted by the perversion you were introduced to. You must allow the truth of God’s Word to reintroduce you to the woman you were designed to be. Once you realize you have been living from a false reality, you must be willing to go through the process of deliverance so you can be freed from the torment of the demonic influences that made a dwelling place in your life. Then you must be willing to do the work required to stay free. That means living by the power of the Holy Spirit and choosing a life of consecration and holiness before God. This is not foreign to me. I was introduced to pornography and sexual perversion at a young age by a relative. As a result, I became promiscuous, flirtatious, and used my body to get the attention I wanted. But the truth is, I hated sex. I did not want it. What it created was temporary comfort and a false sense of satisfaction that kept me from feeling alone.