I think it’s super important you actually think about what type of woman would be best for you. Right now I want you to think. If the woman you’re perusing (if for long term relationship... which you should be doing) was your daughter would you be proud/impressed? If the answer is no, you should probably find another woman. Not chasing the best body or looks possible as these women are often superficial. Here’s what I’ve come to learn: - Most men are attracted to the wrong women — looks, validation, excitement — not alignment. - A woman can be beautiful and still drain your focus, your confidence, and your mission. - Character > Beauty. Looks matter, but not more than loyalty, peace, and self-discipline. - Femininity is possibly the most important thing for a women to demonstrate when it comes to her ability to complement a man’s direction and follow your lead. - The right woman adds value to your life; mentally, emotionally, spiritually — not just physically.

In LTR, there comes a time when we will be expected to meet the parents. How should we act when this happens? Internalizing LOW and being narcissistic/selfish doesn’t seem like the best play when dealing with the parents. The dad of the girl I’m seeing wants to meet me to see if I’m a good fit for his daughter. They come from a good family, so there is some pressure to perform here.

The girl I am seeing has a straight male best friend. She said that she is not interested in him like that and never will be, but I’m not sure about his intentions. Context: Girl is super high IL, invests a lot of her time and does a lot for me. (Same girl I’ve been writing about). But recently she told me about this guy friend that she had. I’ve also noticed this guy friend calling her at night and asking her to go to the movies etc. The guy has a girlfriend but she is also away traveling right now. I am away on a business trip and when I was talking with her last night, she told me that she is getting dinner with her guy friend Friday night, which is today. This was a quote from her as to why she is going. “ His girlfriend is away on a trip right now and he’s lonely, so he said that he wants to hang with me”. When I heard this, I was stunned. Everything else in the relationship is good so far, but this is a big red flag. Is she just naive? Should I meet this guy to see what his intentions are?

New video up. My take on how and when boundaries should be set with a specific situation.

Context: I’ve been working on myself and learning LOW for a few months now, and I’ve had solid results with FEG and MEG. I can get into BEG pretty easily, but when it’s time for LTR, I feel like I lose myself. I start reverting back to the old blue pill frame, giving up my time, not prioritizing my mission, basking in the fruits of my labor (sex, her investment, emotional connection). Ultimately after a while, I’m not the same guy that they fell in love with at the start. I think the root of my problems comes when I give up my rotation for one girl in the BEG stages. (And also probably some deep rooted trauma) Currently, I am going through the same thing with a girl I have been seeing for about a month or so. She does everything I want, invests, takes time out of her day for me, does anything I say etc. I have gotten rid of some of the connections with girls that I hook up with, but because of that, I am now starting to feel the scarcity mindset come back. Logically, I know I can build a rotation again from scratch, but now it seems like I have a lot more invested in this girl and I’m also attached to that outcome more. Idk exactly why I do a full 180 from attractive guy in FEG/MEG to the opposite in LTR.