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Welcome to The Pleasure Project community **Step 1:** Introduce yourself in the comments below (see prompts at the bottom) **Step 2:** Explore the Classroom and start engaging with the resources --- **COMMUNITY AGREEMENTS:** **1. Active participation keeps us thriving.** This is a space for mutual exchange, not passive consumption. If you're here only to observe without contributing—no posts, comments, or engagement—you'll be removed after 30 days of inactivity. We check activity monthly to maintain the integrity and vibrancy of this community. **2. No unsolicited business pitching.** This community is not a marketplace for your services. Soliciting members with business offers will result in an immediate ban. If someone pitches you, please report them to an admin. --- **TO GET STARTED:** Drop a comment below and share: - Your name - What brings you to this community—what are you exploring or seeking around pleasure, embodiment, or erotic expansion? - One intention you're holding for your time here We're glad you're here. Let's build something beautiful together. See you in the comments 💋
0 likes • Jan 1
@Doug Duncan Thank you for sharing this. My ex suffered a stroke earlier this year (doing great, not 100%, but amazing by any standard. no lasting incapacity, but easily fatigued and rebuilding strength on one side). I knew he was struggling- I can’t imagine going from viewing yourself as Iron man and then having to contend with the physical restrictions of Tony Starks body when mentally, you know what you were just capable of a few days before. He put up walls and turned inward except when it came to sex and I knew he was seeking normalcy, affirmation, and confirmation, but in all other ways he was walled off. His feelings of being broken, broke us and that didn’t have to be what happened, but I respect that we all deal with things differently and he was operating from a perspective I didn’t have first- hand or even second-hand access to. This gives me hope that he will find his way, if he so chooses. I wish you well on this journey of exploration, coming home to yourself, and even expanding what that looks like.
2 likes • Mar 26
@NataliahDenise Oliver “ Superpower” and “ learning the language of me”. I’ve never thought about it as a superpower, but oh I like that!
"I don't have time."
That's the excuse so many people make when it comes to ritualizing self care. How hard is it to carve out time in your day for yourself? What are you fearful of losing in that one hour that you give just to your own well being? Who walks away? Are you supposed to have any of it if it leaves you so easily? We spend every moment working for someone else's dream, well being, safety and thoughts, what is it all for if you can't get 1/24th of the day to yourself? The real answer might be one you don't want. You have time for meditation. You have time for a walk. You have time for reading. You have time to sit in silence. You have time to heal yourself. The question is, do you believe that you deserve it?
"I don't have time."
0 likes • Feb 8
I can’t remember where I heard/read we are supposed to fill our own cups beyond full and what we give to others, we give out of the over flow, not out of the cup. Self-care allows me to fully show up for all the things/people that I give myself to. Functioning in a deficit is not only unsustainable, it cheats everyone in the equation- especially me and then I resent the time/care that I give out that I didn’t give to myself. It’s laughable because I would I have an attitude feeling like I’d been cheated when I was the one who cheated me. I take time for me so that I can have time for ______. Took me far too long to understand and accept that that’s not only ok, that’s the requirement.
0 likes • Feb 8
@Angela B The conditioning strikes again! This is so true and then they balk when you practice “charity begins at home” and charity is yourself because how dare you not begin and end with putting yourself last on your own list as if showing up deficient is a badge of honor.
You can’t say I love to read but I don’t like the letters!?!
You can’t say “I love to read” but “I don’t like the letters!?!” The fundamentals, y’all. I’m reading your messages — and I hear the excitement, the questions, the eagerness for what’s next. But before we run ahead, we need to get solid on the fundamentals first. So let’s build the foundation together. What do you want to master this year — the core skills or understandings that everything else builds on? What feels essential for you right now? Drop your 👇 in the comments so I can make sure we’re starting where it matters most. #pleasureisascience
You can’t say I love to read but I don’t like the letters!?!
5 likes • Jan 13
I want to deepen and expand my experiences. I want more and I’m here to explore what more is and learn how to ask for it, experience it, and share it.
2 likes • Jan 19
@Raven Heart “ pleasure without shame or guilt” and “pleasure is birthright “ resonate so deeply. I am awed that our bodies are capable of experiencing so much pleasure
What emotion is most present for you today?
Take a moment and feel it—not just think about it. Where does it live in your body? What texture does it have? Is it sharp, full, restless, warm? Now ask: what does it crave? Every emotion has a want underneath it. Anger might want movement or release. Sadness might want to be held. Desire might want to be seen. Joy might crave space to expand. When we let ourselves feel those cravings all the way through—without tryingto fix or analyze them—we open the door to pleasure. Pleasure isn’t separate from what we feel; it’s what happens when we meet our emotions with curiosity instead of control. When we breathe into what’s real, the body begins to soften. The senses start to wake up. We return to ourselves. Pleasure lives there—in the simple act of presence. So, what’s the emotion moving in you right now? And what would it feel like to let it have what it’s craving?
2 likes • Jan 13
Curiosity, but quite honestly, curiosity is present at most times with me. The “why” is often more important and more interesting than the “that”. If I am not asking questions, I don’t care. The seeker and researcher in me is awake and anticipating.
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1 like • Jan 5
Agreed
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