Just wanted to share an integrity win today. This feeds into my yearly goal of becoming a person of integrity, one who respects himself (and feels proud his actions) and hence ends up having a better life experience.. I'll keep responding to this thread with insights as I gain them.. Had planned with friends to meet up today to do some community work in preparation for an event. I live about 35-40 mins away, while the other friends live <20mins away. For context - I really like spending time with these guys. Knowing that the quantum of work was less..I called up my friend and told him that I'm not coming (even though I felt slightly guilty/obligated to go) as there is very little work and it is not worth the travel time. Ended up freeing my time and taking my daughter to the swimming pool for the first time ever..an awesome experience. Felt good that I utilised my energy and time with my daughter instead..met one of the friends later at night who told me that " it was good that you didn't come as the work was 15mins or so.. absolute waste of time". A good small personal win.

I’m tired of being the man I think others want me to be. I just joined the Brotherhood because I’m ready to become the man I actually admire. To me, that means setting better boundaries and being 100% real, even when it’s awkward or difficult. Glad to be in the trenches with you guys. Now I'm curious, If you could sum up the man you admire in just three words, what would they be?