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Thanks for having me!!
My little introduction video. I'm looking forward to expanding with you all🙏 https://www.loom.com/share/4e78cda73c694e37914a429370d6be7c
Thanks for having me!!
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@Tah Whitty Thanks for the welcome! Glad to be here, and I see many more looms to come ☝️☝️
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@Jared Johnson Thanks Jared! I'm looking forward to being a part of the community🙏🙏
Going It Alone as a Man Sucks. Here’s Why.
A lot of men are taught the same quiet rule: Handle it yourself. Don’t complain. Don’t burden anyone. Figure it out. So we do. We carry stress alone. We process anger alone. We navigate relationships alone. We try to make sense of life alone. And at first it feels like strength. But over time something else shows up. Isolation. Pressure. Confusion. A sense that you're supposed to have it handled, even when you don’t. The truth is that humans were never built to operate alone. Men especially were historically wired into brotherhood, tribe, mentorship, and shared responsibility. Not just drinking together. Not just watching sports together. Actual conversation. Actual witnessing. Actual accountability. A place where you can say: • “I’m pissed off and I don’t know what to do with it.” • “My relationship is confusing the hell out of me.” • “I feel like I’m carrying the weight of everything.” And instead of being judged, you get men who can meet you there. That’s part of what The Expanse is about. A place where men can: • speak honestly• sharpen each other • challenge each other • laugh together • grow together No posturing.No pretending.No “I’ve got it all figured out.” Just men doing the work of becoming more aware, more capable, and more connected. Because going it alone? That might be common. But it’s not necessary. And it sure as hell isn’t the most powerful way to live. Curious to hear from you guys: When have you felt the “lone wolf” pressure the most in your life? Career? Relationships? Family expectations? Something else? Drop it below 👇
Going It Alone as a Man Sucks. Here’s Why.
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@Isaac Preston 🙏🙏🙏 If your "tribe" isn't willing to grow with you, it's capped and you'll feel stifled. I don't let anyone in my skool community that I don't vibe with. "Hang out with 5 millionaires, you'll be the sixth." I think I heard that on JRE. But I've usually been the one giving and all about doing things on my own. It's been coming back to me now, but life was rough for a while. It wasn't hard, just rough. I just recently been getting help from others and my growth has been amazing. @Tah Whitty has been a HUGE help with his presence alone. I appreciate you and everything you're about, Tah 🙏🙏🙏
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I strengthen myself, so that I may strengthen others. I've always leaned towards doing things on my own, still do for the most part. But the help I've been receiving lately made me realize that I've been stunting my growth. That makes it so I haven't strengthened myself as much as I could have. I love helping people, it's where I feel the most productive. I'm at a point now, where I can spread my knowledge and life experiences. Thanks for this post @Tah Whitty . Praying for your safe travels, my man🙏🙏🙏
A walkthrough and ramble for the PDF
I uploaded a PDF recently about deep introspection. Here is my Loom and a video from a friend on YouTube. If anything, forget about my Loom and watch the YT. https://www.loom.com/share/3b892b2d1f03413d8e13bac9618bf78e
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@Jared Fenn Of course, my man! Ailandas is one of the few people I consider to be a great Guide. I'm glad you took the time to watch it.🙏
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@Tah Whitty Yes, awareness is 100% a takeaway. But meditation on that level is also life-changing in many different ways. In my book, I call it the Subconscious Decision to Notice (SDN). A perfect example I like to use is a smoker. One day, they just decide to quit. And nine times out of ten, they don't realize that they tried quitting, likely multiple times. From my experience, this happens because your subconscious finally noticed and decided to listen. I quit like this, along with a handful of people I know. I also like to talk about an old building someone passes for years, and notices it like it's a rundown NEW building. It's new to them because they just decided to notice. Working with meditation brings about this awareness, and in turn, it creates external results.
How's Your Heart?
Gentlemen, hows your heart today? What are you feeling? What are you experiencing? Name it below in the comments. No need for explanation or context. No need for fixing or changing. Let's see if we can be with what is.
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@Jared Fenn Happy I could be of help🙏
Reflection and deep introspection
I've long been an advocate for deep dives into oneself. Even ten minutes a day could yield drastic results in as little as a week. Three main problems I help with are emotional regulation, burnout, and work/life balance. The PDF is a guide to deep introspection. I hope it helps. I DO, however, recommend 10 minutes in the morning and at night. Morning: map out the day Night: reflect on it and how to improve tomorrow Any questions, feel free to ask. I'm an open book. Stay up☝️ Expandites, Expanders, Expandists?
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@Tah Whitty Of course, I usually just try to focus on tools. The only negative feedback I've gotten from my book is actually the lack of story lol. It was actually from the principal of Venture Academy of Leadership and Entrepreneurs, got a sense of pride in my work. It's an entrepreneurial high school for context. I found that she already teaches most of what's in my book in her school, so that was nice to hear. I'll be working on aLoom for it now😎
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@Tah Whitty I posted in the "OS Lite" tag and included my video, as well as a YouTube video that discusses it. The YouTube video was made by Ailandas and points out the "drastic" results of doing it for an hour a day for a year. If anything, I hope they watch the video Ailandas made. Mine is more of a cool afterthought ramble.
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