Mistake 6: The Top 8 Reasons People Fail at Spirit-Guides
========= Mistake 6: Believing the Identity of Your Spirit-Guides is Predetermined ========= There's a tendency to assume that the identity of your guides is set-in-stone. As if itโs a cosmic Netflix seriesโyou just sit on the couch, hit โplay,โ and wait for the plot to reveal itself. In this view, your spirit-guides are predetermined Your only job is to wait patiently while your spirit guides, over time.. ..slowly introduce themselves like mysterious guests at a masquerade ball. Notice use of the word: - predetermined. That word matters, because underneath it sits a stack of assumptions: โ The identity of your guides is already fixed. โ They are who they are, and you have no say in the matter. โ Their identity will never change. โ Therefore, your role in their identity is entirely passiveโyou influence nothing, determine nothing, and manifest nothing in that regard Youโre basically a spiritual houseplant: present, alive, but not consulted about who guides you. However, in spiritโฆ all is possible. - The spiritual realm is not a context of limitation. - Itโs a context of limitless possibility. And in a context of limitless possibility, which of these actually makes more sense? --> That you have no say in who your guides are? --> Or that you do have a say? Is the spirit realm: --> a place of limitation and predeterminism? --> Or a place of choice and possibilities? What feels more intuitively true to you? Ifโlike meโyou land on these two conclusions: โ You do have a say about who your guides are โ Spirit is a place of choice, not limitation Then certain implications naturally follow: โ The identity of your guides may not be as fixed as we assume โ You may, in fact, be able to manifest who they are So how do you work with this insight? You begin by asking pointed questions, such as: - โWho do I want my guides to be?โ - โWhat qualities and attributes do I want my guides to have?โ Before we wrap this up, thereโs one more important point to make: