Think of all the things you want... Maybe its the money, the successful business, the women, the future family.. If you want those things your gonna have to go through pain, the pain of self doubt.. telling yourself "fuck what if this doesn't work" Or the pain of people and even your family making fun of you for starting that business "If they find my youtube idk what they'll say to me" In order to get you want you have to go through pain the pain of getting rejected by multiple girls in order to find your wife.. You have to be able to handle all this pain, because if you just crumble. You'll stay the same and settle for a mediocre life. But you know deep down you can't settle for a life everyone is telling you to live. You have to go through the struggle.