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Daily Prompt #19
Think of someone (or a type of person) whose wiring regularly clashes with yours. What's the clash and what would the refined version of you do differently?
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For me I find timid or unsure people frustrating. That's my raw bulldozer. They're cautious so I push harder for a decision which makes them withdraw more. The refined version is still maintaining the goal of moving toward a decision but giving them the room and space to also execute and have their say.
Daily Prompt #18
If your business or life reflected your fully refined self (the values, the culture, the client experience) what would be different from today?
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For me, it would be frictionless and knowing when to speak up and when to stay quiet and letting other people feel like they’re in the driver seat. I would champion other people and make them feel heard and help them succeed.
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👋 Introduce yourself // what's your wiring? Welcome to The Refinery. Let's get to know each other. In the comments, share three things: 1. Your name and what you do — keep it short 2. Your type (Take the Type Finder Test) and one honest sentence about how the raw version of you shows up most 3. What brought you here // what's the version of yourself you're trying to refine? I'll go first 👇
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@Nathan Sowter a fellow 8! 🫶
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@Cynthia Spirlin welcome! In Module 1 you should find the foundations doc which will help you out a lot. Feel free to have a read through some of the daily prompts too - see if any resonate with you ✌️
Daily Prompt #17
What kind of person (client/customer/other) brings out your best? What kind brings out your worst and what does that tell you?
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For me, the person who is happy for me to go and do what I do brings out the best in me. Someone that already sees what I'm good at (or enjoy doing) gives me freedom to be myself a bit more. As someone who likes to be in control I find other controlling being difficult to spend time with. Ironic!
Daily Prompt #16
What's the gap between how you think you come across and how you actually come across? How do you know this? ✔ The gap between intention and impact is where raw wiring lives.
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This one was a hard lesson for me...sometimes I thought confidence was a strength but it was being perceived by some people as arrogance or just being slightly socially awkward.
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@Nathan Sowter haha yes! Need to bring that out every now and then 🦾
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I'm fascinated by how people think, act and perceive the world around them.

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