I uploaded a video here that I just made regarding a yearly challenge I want to do with all of you which is no pornography for 2026. It's a silent struggle that I know a lot of men have battled with. It's something I've battled with myself. And I know there are a plethora of phenomenal reasons why we shouldn't watch it and allow ourselves to have greater input sources. I'm posting this in Mindset Monday, because manifest destiny talks about this: You're Input, leads to your Thoughts—Words—Actions—Habits—Character—Destiny—Legacy. If you want to create the destiny and legacy you want in your life, it all starts with input. If we eliminate pornography from our lives, I've witnessed it myself when you do that, it frees up mental bandwidth, you get your mind out of the gutter, you can focus on things that are going to allow you to move forward in your life. I'm not saying it's going to be easy but I am saying it's going to be worth it. We can walk this journey together. And make it happen.

This poem struck a chord with me when I read it. There is beauty and strength, and there is beauty in restraint. I mentioned in the video, but we're called as men to be meek. Meaning, we know how to use a sword but we choose not to.

Being part of Elites Only isn’t about already being elite, it’s about becoming elite. Elites aren’t born; they’re made. They’re developed through mindset, discipline, and relentless growth. Your past doesn’t define you. You define you. At any moment, you can choose to grow, change, and rise above who you once were. I want to be clear from day one: I’m not leading this community from a place of perfection. I don’t get everything right. I still have days where my lower self wins, where I fall short, slip up, or don’t live up to who I know I can be. But I refuse to stay down. Every day, I get back up, recommit, and grow. That’s what makes someone elite, not flawlessness, but the courage to rise, learn, and keep becoming the person they’re called to be. I’m on this journey with you, not above you.

/iˈlēt,āˈlēt/ A select group that is superior in terms of ability or qualities to the rest of a group or society. Being part of Elites Only isn’t about already being elite—it’s about becoming elite. Elites aren’t born; they’re made. They’re developed through mindset, discipline, and relentless growth. Your past doesn’t define you. You define you. At any moment, you can choose to grow, change, and rise above who you once were. I want to be clear from day one: I’m not leading this community from a place of perfection. I don’t get everything right. I still have days where my lower self wins, where I fall short, slip up, or don’t live up to who I know I can be. But I refuse to stay down. Every day, I get back up, recommit, and grow. That’s what makes someone elite—not flawlessness, but the courage to rise, learn, and keep becoming the person they’re called to be. I’m on this journey with you, not above you.