Let me take you behind the curtain again, love. There was a day — and I remember it in my bones —when something cracked open. Not softly. Not politely. Not intellectually. It hit like a tidal wave: I wasn’t struggling because I lacked strategy. I wasn’t stuck because I needed better mindset work. I was broke because I was obedient. This was the day I realized staying broke was a form of obedience Obedient to the emotional codes I was raised inside of. Obedient to the ceilings that kept everyone connected. Obedient to the unspoken rule: “Don’t outgrow the people who taught you how to survive.” Staying broke was familiar. Predictable. Culturally acceptable. Emotionally safe. It was my unconscious way of saying: “See? I’m still one of you.I won’t rise past you.I won’t leave you behind.” And that realization gutted me. Because it meant my struggle wasn’t accidental. It was loyal. The day I raised my standards, a part of me trembled. A part of me feared exile. A part of me feared being misunderstood. A part of me feared becoming “different.” But here’s the Sacred Shadow truth: Staying small to preserve belonging is still self-abandonment. And it wasn’t helping anyone. Not them. Not me. Not the world I came here to touch. That day, something died. The obedient daughter. The loyal struggler. The woman who thought love required limitation. And something else was born. A woman who could love her roots without shrinking to match them. A woman who understood that expansion is not betrayal —it’s evolution. That’s the woman I live from now. She doesn’t ask permission to rise. She doesn’t apologize for overflow. She doesn’t brace for success. She chooses it. And she stays.

This frequency changes everything: Softness as power. Openness as magnetism. Receiving as a sacred kink. Read this aloud, slow: “I soften, and life pours in. I open, and abundance follows. I receive, and the world rearranges.” Receiving is not passive. It is an act of power. A reclamation. A seduction. It is you saying: “I trust myself enough to be given to.” Let this frequency settle between your ribs. Feel it hum.

Let’s celebrate the wins that don’t look flashy but are massive to your nervous system: 🔥 You accepted a compliment without shrinking 🔥 You let someone help you carry something 🔥 You let yourself rest without guilt 🔥 You received money without immediately spending it or justifying it 🔥 You let yourself want more without shame Here’s your reframe of the week: Every time you receive without apologizing, you break a generational contract. You’re not just accepting a gift, a payment, or a blessing. You’re saying: My past doesn’t get to set the ceiling on my future. That’s the wild woman inside you —the one who refuses to inherit the struggle just because it was normalized.

Receiving isn’t the scary part. .It's who you become after. Because receiving means: 💋 You’re no longer the woman who struggles 💋 You’re no longer bonded to your lineage through lack 💋 You’re no longer pretending you need less 💋 You’re no longer hiding behind “I’ll do it myself” 💋 You’re no longer protected by familiar limitations Receiving rewrites your identity —and identity change is the deepest taboo of all. So today’s truth bomb: You don’t fear abundance.. You fear the version of you who rises when it’s no longer optional to stay small. Let that sit in your bones. Let it turn you on.

We had to make an emergency trip to the vet tonight so tonight’s call will be pushed to next week!