The summer holidays are flying by, and your social media is probably a lot like mine, a constant stream of "school readiness" checklists, and mums asking how they can prepare their child for the start of school. There are ads for phonics apps, workbooks for tracing letters, and the nagging feeling that your little one should already be sitting at a desk for half an hour at a time. As a teacher, I see that pressure from the classroom side; as a mum, I feel it right there in the pit of my stomach with you. But I want to share a little secret from the other side of the school gates: there’s something far more important for 4 year olds to be learning! Put down the flashcards, there will be plenty of time for phonics and maths over the next few years. ✨ It’s Not About the ABCs ✨ I promise you, your child’s kindergarten teacher isn't going to be worried if they can't write their name in perfect cursive or identify every number to twenty. In fact, most four and five-year-olds aren't built to sit still for long stretches—they are built to move, explore, and play. Spend the next few weeks building their social and emotional toolkit. A child who feels secure, heard, and confident in themselves is a child who is ready to learn. ✨ The Real Foundations for Starting School ✨ Rather than focusing on what they know, look at how they feel. If you’re choosing what to prioritise this month, let it be these three pillars: 1. Building Resilience School involves a lot of "first goes" at things. Teach your child that it’s okay to get frustrated. Instead of jumping in to fix a stuck zip or a wobbly tower of blocks, encourage them to be a problem solver. We want them to know that they don't have to give up at the first hurdle—they can take a breath and try a different way. 2. Developing Self-Regulation The classroom can be a busy, noisy place. Help them learn how to calm their own body down when things feel a bit much. Whether it’s taking a "slow-motion breath whilst counting to 5” or knowing how to ask, "Can I have some space, please?", these are the skills that will help them navigate a long school day.

Hi Future Friends, if you’re reading this then YAY! You’ve found me! My name is Robyn, I’m a mum of three young children and an early childhood advocate. I’m here to support you on your parenting journey, and share a little bit of mine! as they saying goes, “it takes a village” and yours has arrived.