I have a friend who recently had someone judge her relationship with God. This person commented on my friend's FB page that the reason she has three boys, all with the diagnosis of autism, is "obviously" because God is punishing her. This "judge" doesn't even know my friend. It's so amazing how people will jump to conclusions so quickly and hold on so tightly to traditions that were faulty from the beginning. My next comments are not an overall judgment of the Filipino culture...just an observation. As most know, the Philippines is rooted deeply in the Catholic religion. In fact, besides the Vatican, the Philippines is the only Catholic country that does not allow for divorce. That's another topic... One of the old traditions and beliefs of the Catholic religion is that if someone was born with a disability, that was intended to be a curse from God. In fact, while most Catholics and priests probably do not continue to hold to it, it was believed that there were some disabilities that were connected to demon possession, such as epilepsy, mental illness and intellectual disabilities. The woman who attacked my friend with these ridiculous accusations very likely is holding on to these false beliefs. Here is the perception of Jesus: John 9:1-3 - "As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. 2 His disciples asked him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” 3 “Neither this man nor his parents sinned,” said Jesus, “but this happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him." Then Jesus goes ahead and heals the man's blindness. How do you perceive Disability?