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Hey hoomans👋 I’m Rob and I’m so excited to be a part of this amazing community. I’m here to connect, laugh, and create something legendary with all of you. Let’s make this journey fun and impactful, I’m all in for sharing, learning, and building connections with you all. Let’s make it loud and make it legendary. Looking forward to growing together and having a blast 😄
1 like • Dec '25
@Niklas Schröer yo. what's good?
🥰 I choose me.
Yesterday, after a question in the tribe, I was brought to tears for hours realizing that I have been saying “no” to myself for years, helping others (anyone really) just because I can. My early childhood programming was that if I don’t help, I am a bad person. That’s not true. Sometimes people don’t have your best interest in mind and sometimes they don’t care for you. Sometimes you have fake friends and you don’t realize it… especially if you are programmed to just help help help all the time! So, up until yesterday I used to tell my younger self “shut up Ro and just don’t”…. Not listening to what Ro wants. Realizing how many times I have done that, made me feel sick in my stomach. Example: I have this one “friend” that only takes takes takes and demands demands demands… She is first to hit me up when I play a bigger show - gets VIP treatment, backstage passes and free drinks… and shows up late for my set and sometimes misses it! Borrows money with promises that she will pay back - never happens. Promises - never mind… always!!! I believe I outgrew this friendship and all of them fake ones!! No more! Last night I acquired my own filter!!! I am pushing my own boundaries by setting boundaries. How often do you bend over backwards for others that do not deserve it?
🥰 I choose me.
2 likes • Dec '25
Wow,🤗 reading this really hit me hard in the best way. I can totally relate to what you’re saying about saying "no" to yourself for the sake of others. Growing up, I think a lot of us are taught that helping people is the highest form of self-worth, but sometimes, we forget that we also need to show up for ourselves in the same way. It’s tough to realize how many times we’ve let ourselves down just to avoid letting others down. I think your point about fake friends really resonates. It's like, when you're always the one giving, it's easy to miss the signs that the people around you aren’t giving back, or worse, are just taking without appreciation. It takes so much courage to finally draw that line and say, “This is no longer serving me.” Setting boundaries feels like a massive shift, but it's also incredibly liberating. So proud of you for taking that step to honor yourself and your needs. Keep pushing those boundaries! You're worth it.
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