Although expectations and the weight thereof is primarily a social construct, it is important to consider the evolution of parenting/fathering of a child. These days, being a dad isn’t as simple as it used to be. Traditionally, fathers were seen mainly as the family’s provider and disciplinarian. Now, society expects them to also be emotionally present, nurturing, and equal partners in parenting. That’s a positive shift, but it can also be stressful—especially when workplaces, cultural norms, and support systems haven’t caught up. Research shows that when dads are involved—through emotional support, hands-on caregiving, and shared decision-making—it has a real, measurable impact on kids’ cognitive, social, and emotional development. How dads see themselves, and the societal expectations they feel, strongly shape how they engage with their families. But there are challenges. Rigid work schedules limited paternity leave, and stereotypes about masculinity can make it hard for fathers to be fully present. When dads feel like they can’t meet the ideal of being both provider and caregiver, it can take a toll on their mental health, self-esteem, and relationships. In places like South Africa, economic pressures and traditional masculine roles often reinforce the idea that fathers must focus on providing, which can limit opportunities for emotional and caregiving involvement. The bottom line: Today’s dads are expected to do a lot more than just provide financially. While father involvement clearly benefits families, these expectations can feel overwhelming without supportive policies, workplaces, and cultural understanding. Recognizing dads as multidimensional—both providers and caregivers—is key to healthy families and stronger communities.