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With @Rathin Sharma Talked about mindset and how to start building social momentum

Key Learning -> Sometimes being like forrest grump character can take you a long way. Finally recovered from a cold and my plan for was simple, finish 2 classroom courses and then go out to execute and gather get some insta's. During the ride, expectations started to build up and could feel the fear. Then stopped myself and began internal talk. Come on, what are you afraid of? Who is going to carry the boat? the Goggin style reminder changed mindset. Was no longer controlled by fear. Later, while having lunch, a girl sat across from me. I pressed the convo button “Excuse me, do you know if any kind of event is happening in the city today?” She smiled and said she was not sure but that something is always happening around here. Her accent caught my attention so I asked, “Your accent sounds interesting, are you from XYZ?” She nodded, and when I asked what she did, she mentioned that she worked at a food place which I often visit. I told her I love that spot and asked for recommendation. She suggested something spicy, and I joked, “Can we ask for less spicy?” Then I asked, “Where do you think I’m from?” She guessed India, and I played along by saying, “Maybe. Neither yes nor no.” We both laughed and started talking about Indian food. It felt natural and easy. When I said, “Let’s connect on Instagram and maybe grab Indian food sometime,” she took my phone and entered her ID herself. (The request is still pending, but honestly that part does not matter). Looking back, I could have made the goodbye smoother. Since she walked in the same direction as I did, it might have looked as if I was following her. And also like @Minje Kim mentioned vocabulary does matter today vocab was like a of a simp. The important thing is that I acted instead of overthinking. After that, I felt different. Every conversation that followed flowed naturally. My energy was high again and my confidence was restored. It felt as if my social battery, or to put it bluntly my balls had been recharged.

Early morning EST, had my first session with @Minje Kim , felt confident on approaching someone during office hours. Morning: Froze Evening: Froze again Night came, and I told myself, “Nah, not this time.” While walking toward the train station, I saw a girl checking out her sparkling nails. I giggled and said, “Nice nails.” She replied, “Thank you,” no smile and that’s fine. Progress made. On the train, two girls sat in front of me. My old instinct said, “Put on the headphones, maybe another day.” But the new me said, “Nope, today’s the day.” I started a conversation. In between, @Minje Kim words echoed: “Stop the question sessions build attraction.” The girl started asking deep questions about my life, and here I need to work as I became emotional rather staying playful. Lesson learned. When it was time to get off, I said, “Let’s stay in touch mind if I send you a request?” She smiled and said, “I’ll just take a picture of your profile.” Do I feel motivated? Absolutely. Did insecurity kick in? Yeah thought, “Will they even send the request?” But then I caught myself. That’s my low frequency self talking. I reminded myself I’m happy inside, and that’s all that matters.