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I have your back!
When I got my heart broken for the first time - It took me 3 years to recover from that hurt. No one to guide me, no one to talk to. Lonely nights, most of which I spent crying. I was just a high school kid, naive and helpless. I didn't think I had anyone, and I didn't know what to do. Eventually I converted my pain into hate and that's how the cycle ended. But you know what, you don't have to feel the way I did. "There are two types of people: When the first type of people are hurt, they shy away, they hide their pain, they look away, they cover it up. They know that no one is behind them, no one will come to their aid. They are alone. But when the second type of people are hurt, they stare back, they have anger in their eyes. They know they have people behind them who will support them and come their aid. I was the first type. Now my goal is to be someone who enables you to be the second type of person." You joined this group. I haven't really structured it that well yet. Life can be life sometimes. But feel free to send a private message. I will get back to you. And I will help you. I have got your back! Everything is solvable, try talking about it! Just send a Hi or Hey - I will respond back for sure. P.S. - Amazing content is on the way. Stay tuned!!!
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I'm a type 1 for sure. I've had my heart broken before but right now I'm shattered by the woman ive been with for 18 years, that I should've left 15 years ago or even sooner. If that were the case I wouldn't have my 2 amazing kids
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@Occult Sage we just entered into an ENM dynamic. After all the years of anguish I've endured I can't view her in a monogamous way any more. To try and sum everything up, shes cheated on me with 7 different, 6 of them were admitted to 15 years ago, the most recent was about 3 years ago. She has severe mental heath issues that are now being treated properly over the years it was impulsive spending with basically all my money because 9 years ago she wanted to be a stay at home mom. I could write a novel with all of it and the context.
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Pete Ryan
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@pete-ryan-7059
Not in the greatest place right now, loads of personal and work stress burning me out and draining me

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Joined Jun 26, 2026