@Audrius Stankus Welcome to the community Audrius! 🎉

Suffering is a part of life that's very normal. When I started reading Russian novels in my early 20s, I found out that suffering is a main theme there. Not happiness or sadness, but specifically suffering. And by extension, one of the main themes of their culture in general. I found an interesting approach to suffering, one that's completely accepted. Same like sadness being the opposite extreme of happiness. Sadness is as normal as happiness. Same with the suffering, it's a completely normal part of life. And I've also learned a bit about suffering myself, although I'm definitely not as experienced in it as other people. I've just learned to accept it and not take it to heart. I think that's the best I can do. Regarding outlook on other people, I know we all feel it. We all suffer, more or less. I'm not as hard on others, and I'm not mad if they do something bad. Because there can be so many reasons behind the curtains that we don't see.

I will borrow a quote from Hormozi "Good idea. Not now." Good question, not now 😄 I'll come back to it later today or tomorrow

@Andrew Nelson When reading the post, my initial though was "Is there even something...?" 😄 But of course there is. Similar to you, for me it's fixing my sleep. Sleep is my nemesis #1 my whole life. I'm basically "fixing" it all the time, because I get into schedule, and I mess it up somehow. Then I start fixing it again 😂 Momentum for me takes ~2 weeks to build, and that is nothing compared to fixing sleep. And the difference between being well rested and underslept is really tremendous.

Role models I think really hits the spot for describing the idea of the community. Parenting Role Models. Because "Parenting" is important to have in the name, imo.

@Andrew Nelson I don't know 😄

To me the answer is simple - it forms during challenges. It's uncomfortable, but challenging environment is necessary for growth. That's why it's good to put yourself in challenging situations even if you don't need to be there.

@Jon Cooke I agree with you here, only thing I would add to that is that the reflection is not about challenges themselves, but your thought process during the challenges. About the thought process before committing actions.