When Reader Interpretation Doesn’t Match Your Intent as an Author
I’ve been reflecting on some recent reviews for my children’s book, Our Family Tree, and I’d love to hear how other authors navigate this. Overall, I’ve received thoughtful and encouraging feedback around the messaging, especially in terms of inclusion, belonging, and creating space for children to feel seen in different family structures. But I’ve also received a few reviews that seem to interpret the message through a very different lens, particularly around what “family” and “love” should look like. It made me pause and ask: How much of a reader’s response is about the book itself, and how much is about their personal beliefs and lived experiences? As authors, especially those of us writing in the SEL and children’s space, we’re often simplifying complex ideas in age-appropriate ways. I intentionally did not go deep into the complexities of adult relationships because the goal was to create something accessible and affirming for children. But I am realizing that even simple, gentle messaging can strike deeper chords depending on the reader. So, I’m curious: - Have you experienced reviews where the feedback felt more rooted in personal worldview than the actual execution of your book? - How do you process that without second guessing your message? - And how do you stay grounded in your “why” when your work is meant to serve a specific audience? Would love to hear your experiences and perspectives 🤍