You don’t have to know exactly what you need to start making a change. One question I often hear is: “Do I need hypnosis?” Sometimes the better question is: “𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗸𝗲𝗲𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗰𝗸?” That’s what a Discovery Call explores. A relaxed conversation about what’s been happening, the life you’d like back, and whether I believe I can help. Sometimes the first step isn’t therapy. Sometimes it’s simply starting the right conversation.

It usually starts with one small decision. "I won't go this time." Then... "I'll stay home instead." Before long, one avoided situation quietly becomes ten. Many people think anxiety suddenly takes over their lives. It rarely does. It happens gradually. Not because you're weak. Because your mind is trying to protect you. The problem is... An overprotective mind can end up protecting you from the very life you're trying to live. The encouraging news? I've seen people take holidays again. Drive again. Sleep again. Say yes again. Sometimes all it takes is understanding why your mind started protecting you in the first place. 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝘂𝗰𝗵 𝗯𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿?

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Looking back... I don't think I did. I had a stress problem. An exam problem. An on-call NHS problem. A newborn baby problem. A redundancy problem. Sleep was simply where all those things showed up. For years I tried the obvious solutions. More tea. More coffee. Energy drinks. Caffeine tablets. Melatonin. Staying up later. Trying harder to sleep. Eventually I realised something. The harder I tried to sleep... The more awake I became. Today my sleep isn't perfect. Nobody's is. Sometimes I wake earlier than I'd like. Sometimes I take a little longer to drift off. The difference is... It no longer bothers me. Because I'm no longer fighting sleep. I'm working with my mind instead of against it. Sometimes changing the relationship with the problem changes the problem itself.

Most people are very good at noticing what they haven't done. The unfinished jobs. The mistakes. The things they could have done better. But when was the last time you stopped and acknowledged what you have done? Finished the school run? Pat yourself on the back. Had a difficult conversation? Pat yourself on the back. Went for the walk even though you didn't feel like it? Pat yourself on the back. Your mind responds surprisingly well to encouragement. A bit like a child proudly showing you a drawing. You don't point out what's wrong. You smile. You encourage, You celebrate the effort. Then they want to do more. Perhaps it's time we treated ourselves with the same kindness. 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝘃𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸?