Family, If you missed the live experience of Holding Back, the replay is now available. This wasn’t surface-level. We unpacked why we pull back when closeness feels risky, how protection turns into distance, and what healing actually requires. There are still real nuggets in this one. Don’t rush it — sit with it. Reflect. Engage in the comments. 👉 Click here the video below to watch the replay. After you watch, drop one takeaway below. Let’s keep the conversation going.

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I’ve been nominated for Motivational Speaker of the Year at the Black Christian Influencers 2026 Conference & Awards! 🙌🏾 I’m truly grateful, because I know this is all God. The Bible says “the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord.” I didn’t imagine myself in this position at this time, but I’m honored to be considered. If any video I’ve shared has encouraged you, brought you revelation or insight, helped your marriage/relationship, or supported your healing and growth in any way — please go vote for me today. Vote HERE 👇🏽 https://www.bciexperience.com/vote Thank you in advance for your love and support and stay tuned for the free webinar “Holding Back”, on February 15th at 8p.

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First — thank you for signing up. You’re in the right place. If you’re here, it’s likely because you’re tired of wanting connection… but feeling something in you hesitate when it gets close. That tension isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom mixed with wounds. And we’re going to unpack that together. By the end of this experience, you’ll walk away: • With clarity about why you pull back • With language for what your heart has been protecting • Feeling understood — not judged • More aware, grounded, and empowered in how you approach trust This is a safe space. A real space. A growth space. Between now and the event, introduce yourself in the comments. Share (only what you’re comfortable sharing): 👉 Are you single, dating, married, or healing after something? 👉 What made you say “yes” to this conversation? Connection starts here — not just on the live. Engage. Read each other’s responses. Encourage one another. Momentum builds when community shows up. We’re just getting started. See you Sunday February 15th at 8 PM ET. — Vincent 💬