Today you showed me how important it was to connect to my higher self my higher self my inner child. And to never ever let anything in between them again no I can't deal with you I have to deal with this I come first. Now if I could just translate that to my children... I was taught to please others and abandon myself. I won't never do that again and I don't want anybody else to do it either. If somebody's asking you to abandon yourself for them get out now save yourself that's what I learned today

what an amazing call! Day 7 replay is UP! you can find the replay in the classroom in the challenge course area titled “21 Day Curriculum”, go to “Day 7: Healing Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles ” or use this link to go right to it: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=f46bc01564f04b76a52d7f08a6c463a2 today was about connecting to your own inner child dynamics between mom and dad, and beginning to learn how those reflect in different areas of your life often people focus on what they want…but what do you get to subtract from your life? what attachments have you been holding onto that have been keeping familiar type energies in your life? when you become aware of that attachment and you learn to let it go, that’s when you become free there’s a part of our own inner child, that wants to feel seen, heard, soothed, and nurtured many times, we will try to change the inner child… we’ll feel ashamed of it we don’t want it to feel what it’s feeling and the key to merging into more security inside of yourself is learning to have a more secure relationship with your emotions it’s having a more secure relationship with what you’re avoiding feeling. Feeling the fear, feeling the emotion, and expressing yourself allows the energy to release! Day 7 HW: 🧡what’s your BIGGEST insight from connecting to your inner child during the mediation from today’s call? 🧡what emotion came up? 🧡how can you begin to connect to your inner child more? 🧡begin to allow yourself to feel. connect to that child every single day, even for just 5 or 10 minutes a day share your insights in the comments below or make a post about it here! BTW, if you want to do more themed challenges on a monthly basis, learn to let go of your childhood patterns and become the MOST magnetic YOU…the SHIFT Academy is now OPEN! https://www.skool.com/highvibeschool/about

Today’s call is about Healing Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles and Becoming SECURE today we connect the dots from the work you’ve done these last few days and your attachment styles I will be LIVE in 2 hours @ 10am PT / 12pm CT / 1pm ET the zoom link is in the course area here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=f46bc01564f04b76a52d7f08a6c463a2 See you in there! much love, Aaron p.s. If you haven't joined the challenge yet and want to jump in, here’s the link to grab your spot: https://www.magneticlovechallenge.com/

Story of love and self love I believe the world thrives in love I believe love makes our world balanced and happy I believe love corrupted is destructive and harmful I believe I have been putting layers of quote unquote truth over the honest version of The Creation I am meant to be. Like many life jackets trying to protect that creationI believe it was so unsafe to love in my house that I wasn't loved or protected it was absolutely a world of what can I gain from using you without limitation and they called it love I have always believed that love is healing helpful and supportive only never destructive or harmful Story of self relationships I believe relationships are to be based in love and common belief systems when system is healthy though in today's climate relationships have become very dangerous because it has no more safe boundaries people are taught to be however and whatever they want without limits so they are controlling demeaning destructive violent and murderous absolutely not safe. Men and women I believe there should be a balance men support and protect women nurture and heal unfortunately ego comes and destroys this men have more power quote unquote strength women are weak this isn't true so then men have to protect at all costs not the women but the life they choose to exist in with no consent no boundaries from feminine counterparts creating a atmosphere where women and children are no longer cherished and or nurtured violence and control become the energies of the situation and no one is safe anymore Dating. I don't date I haven't in 10 years don't care to dating is a dangerous game where two people put on the rest the best version of what is thought to gain whatever is most desired by all means lies and manipulations needed to gain said situation or article whatever. Healthy relationships are balanced no he said she said there is mutual respect and honor for one another before any other though this hasn't been supported since the 1900s... And through it all I guess I just think life is dangerous because love is dangerous men and women are dangerous together or apart relationships are dangerous because they're traps and dating is dangerous because of the lies that put you into that trap.

Trauma bonds narcissists loving bombs my mom was very charming and deceitful my dad volatile and violent ma would start some s*** some ugly s*** and worked at into a frenzy where he lost all control and started hurting verbally or physically me or other people I had to play whatever part cast for me without being seen heard or drawing any attention and I had a cast from my hip to my toes for from three to six off and on I was also responsible for reeling and Dad's emotions Mom Mom everything must be clean everything every Nick and cranny because I had bad lungs and bad knees I was allergic to dust mites mold mildew grass all of it she had deadly allergies to tetanus and bees so clean was life or death do it right or you will die literally couldn't breathe and if anything cut her feet or wherever she could die also plus nightly she would tell me if they see what you can do they will take you and kill you every night at bed she would look at my chores until she found something wrong every time the dinner dishes was torture I hear water and I have to go potty she would not let me leave the sink until the dishes were done whether I wet myself or not oh yeah I am the 13th birth and I'm the only one that lived. Sum that up do your best and hope that's enough and no it's not Dad I was a thing to him not a person mostly my mother's fault she would do ugly things with me sometimes to make the rent my dad turned that anger and frustration on me I was no good God damn w**** or worthless piece of s*** Mom said Dad was a problem while working him up to a violent outburst regularly sometimes I would have to break in my house to stop him from killing her I stopped him from harming somebody every holiday usually a relative summed up duck and cover Approval what's that there was no approval Love hurts mom told me everybody hard-ons are hard to come by don't waste them I did not understand that was a joke until this very moment. Dad like to go fast mom like to mellow and they both were raging alcoholics