🎉Welcome to the place where we stop pretending this is fine. If you're here, I'm guessing you're a little tired of parenting spaces that feel like they were designed for a completely different family than yours. The ones where "have you tried a reward chart?" is the answer to everything. Yeah. Not our people. This is Effing Happy, and we are absolutely your people. I'm Jennifer, and I've been in the trenches of complex-needs parenting for over 20 years. I've done the hospital waiting rooms and the 2am phone calls and the cleaning up of things I never thought I'd be cleaning up. I've also done the DBT training and the Family Connections program and the suicide prevention work, because when you're parenting kids in crisis, you become a very specific kind of expert whether you signed up for that or not. This community exists because parents like us need a place that can handle our reality, the whole messy, exhausting, sometimes-terrifying, still-somehow-loving reality of it. ➡️So let's do this. Drop a comment and tell us who you are and what brings you here. You don't have to sanitize it. You don't have to make it sound okay. Just tell us what's real, and watch how fast you feel less alone. I'll start: I'm Jenn, I'm a mom of four, two of whom have complex needs that have kept me on my toes in the most demanding way imaginable, and I built this community because I spent years looking for it and it didn't exist yet. Your turn.