when a girl gives you her number after a cold approach, she's going home and telling her friends. "i met this guy in the street." and the friends / family start asking questions. how old is he? do you know him? does anyone know him? that conversation could break comfort. Especially if you are approaching girls that are younger than you that's why i try to get them on a date within 24-48 hours of the approach. not because i'm desperate. because i know my date game is strong and once she's in front of me, i can build more comfort in 2 hours than 2 weeks of texting. reduce the time between approach and date. don't force it if it's not possible, but keep it in mind.

new full breakdown. i approached a girl in the rain. she had an umbrella. i didn't. she spoke zero english. not one word. one date later she was at my place sending a video to her mom to prove she was safe. her mom approved. and before she left, she forgot her ring. full breakdown of everything: the approach, the texting, the date, the pull, the aftermath.

How do you get back into something. For example, I have gotten out of my routine of doing this everyday and improving myself. I rarely have energy as I’m working either 06:00/07:00-14:00 or 14:00-21:30. And my town is majority old people. However, im saving up and planning on going to Munich then Asia with my mate.

the guardian made a documentary on whether the manosphere has ruined dating. i react to it on this video. one thing stuck with me: men are improving themselves in a vacuum. no girls, no experience, just theory. and it's not working. if you're in that cycle right now, this video is for you.

one afternoon. two girls pulled from the street at 6pm. almost closed. her friend ruins it. girls leave. then the girl i've been seeing texts me — she caught me walking with the two girls earlier. she still came over. in this video i break down the exact pull strategy we used, how to handle a group date without over-escalating, and what preselection actually looks like in real life.