@Zsuzsana Dawson lol I like your way of thinking!!! I am in the older group as well but my brain keeps telling me I am 30ish. Haha. I did not know that tornadoes happened that far North. That is surprising.

@Zsuzsana Dawson life moves so fast and it seems to get faster every day. Maybe it is just that I have slowed down considerably and I can’t go as fast as I used to. So I feel like I can’t keep up. But at the same time I want my life to be slow and intention and that is my current crossroads. Slowing down at work also meaning the finances slow down as well and that is scary. I am at that beautiful and frightening age where I am clearing what no longer serves my life but I have not found a balance to being where I am and where I want to be yet. It is a path in progress. I am 56 and my handsome hubby will turn 69 in September. He has decided to stop doing all the “extra” things he has been doing too. He has been semi retired since 62. Which means he has been working more hours doing things he loves. Which I love for him ❤️. You know you are no longer on the top of the mountain when you start discussing things like walk in shower with a seat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. We are relatively healthy as we can be in our world of everything is poisoned. Aging is scary and it walks across our faces and our bodies. But it also brings a deepened sense of self and the slower movements helps us to stop and appreciate all the things that we missed by going to fast in our youth. 🌹🥀💐

Mine is more of a spidey sense with a foreboding overlay. I get both gut and mind hits. My stomach will get upset and I will have a random thought like “go a different route” or “call your kids”. I have learned to not be aggregated when something slows me down. I know now it is my guides making sure that I get where I am going safely. Red lights, forgot something and had to go back home, slow drivers, ect.

@Zsuzsana Dawson I totally agree that women are more in tune to feelings than men and we articulate those sensations. I have found that my husband is very intuitive but his explanation is “I don’t like that person”, or “Nope, I am not going there” and really does not communicate what he is actually sensing. He just follows it and I am over here analyzing it LOL

@Zsuzsana Dawson you are so right! I have thought about those for about 5 years. I was working on buying land for the tiny home community when our land and housing market shot sky high. It is still high but the plan is still in the works. I am a mental health counselor and I work mostly with Domestic violence clients. We have a housing shortage and what is available is stupid expensive. My most vulnerable age bracket is 50 plus women. They have no resources. The younger people who have kids come first for help. They are not old enough to draw their retirement but most are not physically able to work a full time job due to DV injuries so they end up at shelters, on the street or back with their abuser. It is a sad part of our world and is my passion to change. ☹️ Thank you for the angel ❤️ Much love.

@Zsuzsana Dawson thank you very much for your kind words. I am very glad that you created this spot to gather and share life and to meet wonderful people. I love the new category. I know it will be a wonderful addition. I do ask my guides for help when I can’t seem to make something happen. I just now realized that I don’t ask them for help daily and I stopped to contemplate why I don’t. I think it goes back to the idea of not asking for help until I have done every thing I can possibly do first. I am sure that I learned that early in life and it was taught to foster independence. I know my guides are laughing (I can hear them) as I type this out. I know they don’t follow the human Idea of independence and that I need to ask them to help before they can help……maybe that is my lesson to learn. This conversation has been a “light bulb” moment. I am very sure I can come up with a long list of things that I need help with LOL.

That is hillerious!