Think of someone (or a type of person) whose wiring regularly clashes with yours. What's the clash and what would the refined version of you do differently?
Pushy overly competitive profiteers… the bring they justice warrior out in me, which in turn makes me use my bulldozer against them. In short I can clash with a lot of people in the modern business environment
In music I find the seasoned pro much easier to deal with.. they have expectations based on reality, where as amateurs you have this kind of “you are supposed to make me famous” mentality which can be tempting to bite at. After all these years I’ve made my peace with it. I know where I am in the scheme of things which helps.. In martial arts it can be the opposite.. some of the guys that have been around a while are pretty hard headed which tends to bring out the “hammer” side of me..
What's the gap between how you think you come across and how you actually come across? How do you know this? ✔ The gap between intention and impact is where raw wiring lives.
By all accounts I think I’ve made amends with this.. I seem to be showing the more refined side of my self… I can think of two occasions where I have pulled out the bulldozer on purpose tho.