This is a beautiful post, Lauren. And so very true. In the next few words Im talking about people in general, that includes you and me, but it’s not directed to anyone in particular. Its your choice. Where you are right now in your life is because of all the choices you made. Yes, a little bit of what happened to you but even then you have a reaction to everything that happens to you. So sorry but still your own doing. You can dramatically make a 180 degree life shift if you choose to from this moment, NOW… not starting tomorrow morning, but starting NOW take on better habits. And if you’re not sure what they are, go and look what successful peoples habits are. And if you’re still lost to where you can find successful peoples habits - YouTube is King. Make the choice to change into the better, successful, radiant you TODAY. You are mind blowing awesome, you can do it if you just want it badly enough. And one of the habits is being grateful for what you have today and maybe even write it down next to your list of things what you want, like you just said @Lauren Kinghorn. Maby think of your impossible desire as… I will never have this or that or be able to do this or that UNLESS I do this or that…. Then the impossible immediately becomes possible.