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Perimenopause is killing my eroticism
Hey community! Over the past year, I have been experiencing some of the most incredible events surrounding sensual touch in my community in Missoula. I have yearned for spaces where Eros is explored through facilitated practices in sensual and boundaried ways. Yet, as I am diving deeper, my body is going through massive hormonal shifts and my libido and ability to orgasm is virtually extinct! The goal for me is pleasure (not orgasm) but I’m finding it hard to even feel sensation sometimes. I’m working with a hormone specialist but I don’t just want HRT to be my only option. Anyone else in this stage of life and / or have gone through it with any supportive suggestions?
1 like • Jan 25
@Erin Hall thank you so much for this thoughtful and kind response. I can truly feel your heart in these words and it feels really warm to have someone who can also see and understand where I’m at in the ‘throwing the book at it’ yet it both burning me out and making me feel crazy at the same time. I love how you’re focusing on pleasure and specifically erotica. Are there any favorite erotic readings / writers that stand out for you? I’d love to pick one up and try it out!
0 likes • Jan 27
@Divine Bradley I’m Sorry I missed your post! And thank you for the response! Yes, I agree. There is so much in my energy field that feels frazzled. I’m going to look for possible work exchanges with a healing practitioner to see if this can also be supportive. Thank you! 🙌🏼
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2 likes • Jan 13
Hi! I’m Nadine and I’m in the Missoula, MT area! I left my corporate job over 2 years ago now and am finding myself in sensual, erotic, platonic touch spaces that center pleasure and consent and all the things I’ve always wanted and never knew existed. I want to move into the touch therapy space and am curious what is even out there to become a part of. I am a deeply curious and somatic person and I am really looking forward to learning from and with this incredible community!
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Somatics frees me to be me. Lover of nature, animals and human connection.

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