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2 contributions to Coparentology
Boundary of the Day: November 27
๐ŸŒฑ Boundary of the Day: โ€œI wonโ€™t manage what youโ€™re responsible for.โ€ One of the hardest (and healthiest) boundaries in coparenting is letting go of what never shouldโ€™ve been yours to carry. Just because you can remind, rescue, fix, or smooth things overโ€ฆ doesnโ€™t mean you should. ๐Ÿšซ You are NOT responsible for: โ€ข reminding them of visits โ€ข organizing their parenting time โ€ข covering for missed responsibilities โ€ข managing their relationship with your child โ€ข preventing every disappointment โœ… You ARE responsible for: โ€ข your homeโ€™s emotional safety โ€ข consistent routines and expectations โ€ข clear communication โ€ข modelling healthy boundaries โ€ข allowing natural consequences to do their job This boundary is not about punishment. Itโ€™s about self-respect, emotional survival, and healing. When you stop over-functioning, you create space for: โ€“ less resentment โ€“ fewer power struggles โ€“ stronger self-trust โ€“ healthier children long-term ๐Ÿ’ฌ Letโ€™s talk about it: โ€ข Whatโ€™s one responsibility youโ€™ve been carrying that actually isnโ€™t yours anymore? โ€ข What fear comes up when you think about letting go? โ€ข What would it look like to give that responsibility BACK? โ€ข How do you currently โ€œrescueโ€ when things get uncomfortable? โ€ข Where could you practice this boundary this week? You donโ€™t have to be perfect โ€” just brave enough to start. Drop your thoughts below. Youโ€™re not alone in this.
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Hard boundary to accept sometimes indeed ๐Ÿ’ฏ
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I want to know something that brought you joy this today, sparked a little bit of a laugh, an accomplishment you've made, anything! If it brought you happiness, I wanna hear it. ๐Ÿ’•
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Small win today, scheduled my first community event and I was scared to follow through because I didnโ€™t know if anyone would show up, but 3 people ended up coming through even though my community is fairly new. Nothing major but Iโ€™ve scheduled events before and canceled or left early out of fear lol
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@Megan Van Massenhoven what time?! ๐Ÿ‘€ (I know I can just check the calendar but Iโ€™m asking so everyone else also sees it haha)
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