First off, CONGRATULATIONS on the NSNF and hopping back on the wagon! And, yep, we call them Sugar Pushers. Unfortunately, this is a common practice. It seems to be part of the Sugar Freedom Journey. Some people really do equate sugar with love and think that your missing out. They mean well. On the other hand, I think some people just get jealous or competitve? It's called Crab Mentality. If one crab starts to climb out of the pot to freedom, the others pull them back in. Last, I also agree, that it's not your fault and if you count days, just keep right on counting. You really did and are doing great. Hang in there David, friends will adjust, and if they don't, it might be time to find new friends. I did. That's why I am here.