I remember overhearing a specific conversation that my parents were having when I was about 4 or 5 years old. When my dad tucked me into bed I told him "Dad, I won't ask for anything anymore if that helps you (and mom) save money" he replied "Our argument wasnt about you. Its grownup stuff, and you will never have to worry about money. Ill always give you what you need, youre perfect just the way you are. Just ask, and Ill get it for you." Ya, I dont worry about money, but Im definitely not making any. Im with a partner who provides, offers, and gives me what I need (even though he doesn't have a lot, just like my dad).