Πρόδομος (PRO-doh-moss). Before the House. At the threshold. Hekate standing in the space before you cross in. We may be through the threshold, through the descent and about to approach the underworld floor for Pluto Retrograde, but daily life necessitates daily magic. Threshold magic is perhaps the easiest to perform, just passing through your front door. Prodomos is our epithet of the day, and one of Her oldest and most practical faces. In the ancient Greek home, the prodomos was the vestibule, the covered space just before the door, neither fully outside nor fully in. And Hekate stood there. Her image was set at house entrances across Greece, guarding the seam between the street and the hearth. To call Her Prodomos is to name the goddess who lives in the pause before the door. She keeps a whole family of threshold-names: Propylaia (before the gate), Prothyraea (before the door), Strophaia (at the hinge). Hekate is never just inside or outside. She's the one who holds the doorway open while you decide whether to step through. Which is exactly why, after talking to Alyssa, I'm adding a new PDF to the classroom (also attached here): The Hekatean Home Grimoire — 37 rites! Prodomos is the whole idea behind it: you don't need a temple. You need your door, a key, and the willingness to notice what you walk past every day. Start with the next door you cross. This is for printing and using for your own Grimoire/Book of Shadows. I use a three-ring binder for mine. You may share this is you choose! 👇 What door are you standing in front of right now, the one you keep circling but haven't crossed? Name it here at our threshold. I'll go first. En Erebos, Phos. In darkness, light. Blessings, Tirza 🌿🗝️🌙 #MoondayTorchTalk #HekateanHealing #Prodomos 📚 Further reading: Aristophanes, Fragment 388 (source for Prodomos) | Matt Auryn, "The Many Epithets of Hekate" | The Hekatean Home Grimoire: 37 Rites for Hekate (in the classroom)😉

Loves, I drew three oracle cards from Hekatean Path for all of us this Sunday, and they tell a story worth sitting with. This is the arc of the crossroads we're standing at together — where we've been, what holds us, and what's calling us forward. 🃏Klytius — Defeat. We start in the hard place, and I won't dress it up. Klytius is the card of loss — the plan that didn't hold, the effort that didn't land. A lot of us have been carrying disappointment lately: grief over something that fell through, a hope that didn't come to pass. Hekate doesn't look away from that. She names it first, because you can't move through what you won't acknowledge. The defeat was real. Let it be real. 🃏Hieros Pyr — Sacred Fire — Unity. But look what she sets beside the defeat: the eternal flame, the spark of the divine that runs through everything and binds us to each other. Unity is her answer to Klytius. You are not carrying the loss alone. The fire that connects us doesn't go out because one plan failed. Belonging — to her, to each other, to something larger — is what carries us through the seasons of defeat. Warm yourself at the collective fire. 🃏Asteria — Dreams. And she ends with the stars. Asteria is the starry night — vision, dreams, and what's still possible beyond the visible. After the defeat and the fire, Hekate points us upward to what we can still imagine. The dream isn't dead. It's resting in the dark, waiting for us to lift our eyes back to it. What we couldn't hold in one form is being reshaped into another. The reading moves from the ground to the fire to the stars — from loss, through belonging, into vision. If you've been sitting in a defeat lately, this is Hekate telling you it's not the end of the story. It's the beginning of the next dream. And the timing matters: We are closing Phase II — The Descent / Phosphoros. Wednesday we step onto the Underworld Floor. So carry this with you down: the loss is real, the fire holds you, and the dream is waiting on the far side.

The women are weeping at the gate again. Come sit with them. Module 2, Lesson 3 of The Descent: Underworld Journeys just went live in the level 4 classroom — The Lament and the Liturgy: Tammuz Across the Ancient World. And the timing is not mine. We are inside the month of Tammuz right now — the fourth Babylonian month, June into July, the height of summer when the green things wither and the beloved goes down. It’s stiflingly hot here in Michigan, and the spell included in the lesson is perfect for right now, for me at least. For over two thousand years, across Sumer, Akkad, Babylon, and Assyria, this was the month the women sang the laments. This lesson drops in the exact season it belongs to. Here's what's inside — and I'll warn you, this one is grief-work, not a happy ending: 🌾 The oldest lament that survives — older than the Psalms, older than Homer — sung by a woman standing at a threshold, facing the open air 🚪 Tammuz becoming Adonis, the river at Byblos running red, the women who couldn't remember anymore which torn god they were weeping for 🌱 The Gardens of Adonis — Athenian women planting seeds on rooftops deliberately to watch them die, then carrying the withered shoots to the sea 🕯️ And the thread through all of it: the mourner as threshold-keeper. Grief as the technology that holds the gate open. Hekate in every woman who ever wept at a door. There's an incense and atmosphere ritual built in — cedar, or myrrh if you have it, the scent of the mourning— and no candles this time. Only natural light. This lesson is about what travels into a room when you leave the door open. Why now, past the timing: we cross into Phase III — The Underworld Floor / Chthonia this Wednesday, July 8. The deepest room of the whole descent. And this lesson is the map for what comes after the floor. Because the torn god does not stay down. The grain that dies in the earth rises. But — and this is the whole teaching — it doesn't rise because death was defeated. It rises because the women wept it back. Without the mourner, no memory. Without memory, no return. Rebirth isn't the opposite of the descent. It's what grief makes possible on the far side of it.

Also showing off my favorite dress I made last year

Some of the members of the group asked me to remind them when it was the day of my birth. Today is that day. July 2 1995 a baby girl was born. Forged through fire and brimstone she evolved into one bad bitch 🐦‍🔥 thank you for being you and for well wishes today. I love this community so much and I wish we could all get together and eat cake and share a glass of wine 🍷 🌙 🍰