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Love Leaders

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Reset your nervous system using Hypnosis. Secure, calm, and magnetic in love and life. That's what being a Love Leader means!!!

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Are you there?
Imagine for one second... that somebody will take your job away from you... the car you're driving... the house you live in... your passport... your education and all the titles you acquired with your hard work... all of your money... your clothes... your phone and computer... what would be left of you? You might feel that if you stop to attach to or to be all these forms, you'd disappear. But the truth is: You'd still be here. Ancient mystics and modern neuroscientists agree: We are living a dream. For long enough I tried to "wake up" from it. But now I know what works for me instead: To live the dream of my own. If you could be whoever you want to be... If you could do whatever you want to do... If you could have whatever you want to have... What would you choose to be, to have, and to do in 2026? And, if I may be a bit curious: What is ACTUALLY standing in the way? My goal for 2026: To help as many people as I can to live their best dream. Rather than to be running away from the worst one. If you are one of them, I'm here for you. Reply "DREAM" and let's talk. My wish for you into 2026: May you live your dream life. Now and into the future. Love you... Matus
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2026 šŸŽ†
My goals and affirmations for 2026 1. Be consistent • I follow through on all my plans. 2. Set small attainable goals throughout the year • I am able to accomplish all my goals. 3. Articulate my thoughts more clearly • I am able to speak in a way concise and clear way. 4. Be more generous • I share with others from abundance that has been given to me. 5. Choose to see the good • I see positivity and righteousness all around me. 6. Make more meaningful connections • I am open to connections with others. 7. Stay positive • I am blessed in every way. What’s your goals?
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My goals and affirmations for 2026: 1. More courage, less fear. I tried the opposite for long enough, it's time to try it this way. 2. More future, less past. Past contains a lot of lessons, but the future is where the rest of my life is. 3. More compassion, less judgement. Every single person lives a variation of my life. I wonder what stage they're currently at... 4. More discomfort, less being in my comfort zone. As someone wise said it: "Life happens at the edge of your comfort zone." 5. More action, less just thinking about it Action does seem to be the answer for most worldly problems. I act like I know it. Who's next?
The road wasn’t steep. The story was.
Today, my friend Nikki told me a story. And I can't stop thinking about it. You see... Four years ago, she went to a beach here in Bali. Ever since then, she remembered the road to get there as very steep. So steep that this time, on the way there, she was warning her friend: ā€œPrepare yourself, this part is intense.ā€ But when they arrived… They couldn’t find anything steep at all. No dramatic drop. No scary turn. No ā€œoh shitā€ moment. Instead, Nikki kept asking: ā€œWhere is that steep road?ā€ And then it clicked. Four years ago, she was a beginner on a scooter. New. Insecure. Tense. Overthinking every turn. So the road felt steep. Today? She’s experienced. Grounded. Confident. Same road. Completely different experience. The road didn’t change. She did. And yet… the story stayed. This is how so many of us live. We’re still reacting to life through stories that were formed when we were: - younger - less skilled - less resourced - less safe Stories that made sense back then. But here’s the problem: They’re still running in the background. They whisper: - ā€œThis will be hard.ā€ - ā€œI’m not ready.ā€ - ā€œThis is dangerous.ā€ - ā€œI can’t handle this.ā€ Even when the road isn’t steep anymore. Those stories don’t exist anywhere else. Not in reality. Not in the present moment. Only in the mind. And as long as they run unchecked, life keeps feeling harder than it actually is. Here’s the part that matters most to me. Once you change the story... once you update the lens you’re looking through... you might arrive and be genuinely confused. ā€œWait… this is it?ā€ ā€œWhere’s the steep part?ā€ And if you ask me? I’d rather be surprised and confused for a moment... than scared for my entire life. What about you? If you want to: - identify the old story that’s still running you - understand when it was created and why - and actually change it (not just talk about it) Comment STEEP and let’s talk. Isn't this the time to update your story... so you can start living like it’s now...
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The Biggest Gift I Can Give You
"How can I serve others in the best way possible?" Ever since I arrived to Thailand and now to Bali, I've been pondering this question. You see, I find myself in these 2 pieces of paradise for a specific reason: A friend invited me to teach him EVERYTHING I know. So I started preparation. I put together all the techniques I've been using. I compiled all the results my clients achieved over the years. OVERCOMING LOSS was the first thing that popped at me. People have lost loved ones, relationships, jobs, or material possessions. And the techniques I use helped them to move beyond all of that. HEALING ATTACHMENT WOUNDS was another pattern I noticed. Inconsistent upbringing often results in anxious or avoidant attachment. Again, the methods I use helped them to become secure in love - fast. DEALING WITH INSOMNIA was also a big one. Dysregulated nervous system is at the core of this symptom. Once the body learns to regulate itself again, insomnia vanishes into thin air. Over the years I've helped others with: - healing after betrayal and infidelity - overcoming procrastination and increasing productivity - even eradicating chronic pain But, the biggest benefit I personally experienced... the biggest change people went through... has been to TRUST YOURSELF AGAIN. Here's the thing: Life is challenging. Things happen that we wish wouldn't. Sometimes we feel like we "should've known better". Sometimes others cross our boundaries and we feel "betrayed." Every single instance has a potential to erode our trust to ourselves. Trusting our ability to make decisions. Being confident to adapt. And often, we create a story in our minds: - a story about "not being good enough" - a story about "losing our edge" - a story full of regrets Interestingly enough, the solution to all of these is always the same: CREATING A NEW STORY. That's where my approach shines. That's how I can benefit you the most. That's how you can literally turn the page on whatever you're going through.
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The Biggest Gift I Can Give You
5 Crucial Breakup Mistakes (I Broke All of Them)
When my wife broke up with me a few years ago, I had no map. I thought I was ā€œprocessing.ā€ I thought I was ā€œbeing mature.ā€ I thought time would heal it. It didn’t. Looking back now, I can see I was doing the exact same 5 things I now see almost everyone do after a breakup. I didn’t know they were mistakes. I didn’t know they were feeding the craving instead of healing it. I broke all five. More than once. And then, after working with dozens of clients, I kept seeing the same pattern: - smart, high-functioning people - stuck in the same loop - not because they’re weak, - but because no one ever told them what not to do. So I made this video for the past version of me. And for anyone who’s there right now: 5 Crucial Breakup Mistakes (Avoid #3 At All Costs!) šŸ‘‰ Watch the video here In it, I break down: - why time alone doesn’t heal you, - why most people stay hooked without realizing, - and the five mistakes that quietly keep the withdrawal alive. I don’t want to spoil them here. I want you to see them, feel them, and recognize yourself if they’re happening. Once you see them, you can’t unsee them. If this helps even one person avoid the hell I went through, it’s worth it. Do one thing for me - Think of someone you know who is: - going through a breakup, or - stuck in a separation, or - clearly not themselves in love right now. And send them this video. We don’t always know what to say to people in pain. Sometimes the best thing we can do is put a map in their hands. šŸ‘‰ Watch + share the video We gotta help each other. This one is for the old me who didn’t know better. And for someone out there who finally will. Matus
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From Anxious / Avoidant & on a brink of divorce to SECURE in love & LEADER in life. Helping you to do the same. 8y+ Certified Hypnotherapist & Coach.

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