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Let’s Talk Confidence + Aging (Because It’s Real)
Okay, friends. Let’s talk about this whole confidence in aging thing. One of you mentioned it as a pain point when you joined the community, and I know a lot of us can relate. But what if we think of it like this: you don’t get older… you get layered. Life hands you depth, grit, timing, instincts, and a whole lot of “I’m not doing that nonsense anymore.” But sometimes? We forget that’s an advantage. So let’s take this a little deeper: Confidence in aging = using your wisdom as leverage. Not pretending you’re 25. Not trying to keep up with trends you don’t even like. Just owning the fact that experience gives you clarity others wish they had. Here are a few ways to turn that wisdom into power this week: ✨ 1. Name your wins. Not the “big” ones, the ones you forget count. The hard conversations you’ve learned how to have. The boundaries you’ve built. The way you can walk into a room and instantly read the energy. That’s confidence. You earned it. ✨ 2. Lean into what feels natural now. Trying to be someone you were 10 years ago is exhausting. But being the person you are today? That’s where the magic is. What do you do now with ease that used to overwhelm you? ✨ 3. Let your story work for you. Your experience isn’t baggage, it’s a strategy. Use it to make better decisions, choose better clients, say yes/no faster, or simplify things you used to complicate. ✨ 4. Borrow confidence until it becomes yours. If you’re not feeling it yet, use structure as support: routines, clarity tools, morning reset rituals, one-goal weeks, whatever helps you stand a little taller. ✨ 5. And maybe most importantly: stop apologizing for evolving. Aging isn’t shrinking. It's expanding. You just get more selective about where you put your time, heart, and energy. Your turn: Where can your experience become your advantage right now? Business, life, relationships, boundaries - take your pick. Let’s talk about it. You’re not doing this alone.
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Boundaries are huge for me! My younger self was a committed workaholic. And I loved it back then. But I was single and didn't have something more important to spend my time and energy in. In my fifties, that's a very different story! I'm proud of my ability to say no now. I've also gained a lot of confidence around not caring what people think about the way I look. I know what I bring to the table and to any situation. And I love the affirmations you included. Those are🔥
Reset Your Rhythm
Hey friends — if you missed the Reset Your Rhythm Workshop this morning, breathe easy… I’ve got you. I just uploaded the replay, and this might be one of my favorite clarity sessions ever. It’s simple, grounded, and sooo doable. Inside, we walked through how to: - Release the junk you don’t want to drag into the new year - Carry forward the things that actually matter - Choose one clear, feel-aligned Q1 goal - And map it all out with a plan you’ll actually follow (yes… actually 😄) If you’ve been craving a reset, or you’re feeling that “new year, new chaos” energy coming in hot, this is your moment to slow down, recalibrate, and step into 2026 feeling lighter, clearer, and way more in control. Hit play when you’re ready, download the workbook, and let’s design your next season with intention. 🌿✨
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Great workshop, Stephanie! Today I will with more on figuring out what my one goal needs to be.
Alright friends, let’s ease into this week together.
What’s one focus you’re carrying into the next few days? Just one. Not the whole list. Not the whole color-coded planner. One thing your future self will high-five you for sticking with. ✨ And because we’re all about building momentum, not pressure, here’s your action step: Write down three things you’ve already accomplished this month. Yep, already. Even if December has felt chaotic. Even if your brain’s been doing that adorable “not today, ma’am” thing. Progress counts even when it didn’t look glamorous. Clearing your inbox? Counts. Showing up for a client? Counts. Taking a break because your energy needed it? Definitely counts. The more you recognize what you have done, the easier it is to stay aligned with the thing you want to do next. That’s how you build clarity in real time, not by forcing focus, but by reminding your brain that you can be trusted with momentum. And if you came to this morning’s Reset Your Rhythm training… you know the vibe. Slow. Steady. Grounded. Clear space → clear energy → clear choices. If you missed it, go check it out in the replay section. 💛 What’s your ONE focus this week? 💛 And what are three things you’ve already knocked out this month? Pop them below, or keep them in your journal if that feels better. Either way, I’m cheering you on. Have a great week!
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I'm focusing on cleaning out the clutter. Mostly in my office but really throughout my home. One room at a time, ok be surface at a time. I spent 15 minutes on my office yesterday and although there is still much to be done, I could see and feel the difference! I'm being reminded that lots of baby steps add up to big changes. This month I've caught up on entering ALL the receipts piled up on my desk and cleared out my inboxes.
🌿 Clarity in Motion: Subtract to Strengthen
You know that question we all ask when things feel overwhelming? “Where do I start?” I shared this in today’s Q&A: You don’t get clear before you start. You get clear because you start. Clarity doesn’t come from more thinking, planning, or perfecting. It comes from moving — and often, from removing what’s in the way. This week’s theme hit me through two totally unrelated posts. One about the history of the cinder block (yes, really) — how it became stronger when they removed two-thirds of the inside.And another about how growth happens when you stop doing 80% of what you’re doing. Same message, different metaphors:We don’t get stronger by adding more.We get stronger by letting go of what’s not serving us. 💬 Your Reflection Questions What’s one thing in your business right now that feels heavy?Something that’s draining your energy but not giving much back? It could be an offer, a platform, a task you keep saying “yes” to, or even a mindset that’s weighing you down. Now imagine if you released that.What would open up?Where could that energy go instead? Drop it in the comments — we’ll talk through it together. 🩵 ⚡️This Week’s Clarity Challenge Let’s turn reflection into action: 👉 Choose one thing to let go of — a task, a habit, or a “should” that doesn’t serve your direction.👉 Then choose one thing to take action on — even if it’s messy. Clarity doesn’t come from sitting still. It’s built through movement, subtraction, and small, consistent action. So please share, what are you letting go of this week? And what’s the one thing you’re moving forward on, clarity-first?
🌿 Clarity in Motion: Subtract to Strengthen
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Ok, I've been thinking for long time now about loan signings. When I do this type of work I don't get to set my rate, there is a lot of prep work (printing docs), and I don't get paid for at least 2 weeks. These types of signings no longer bring me joy and I've been experiencing a lot of printer issues lately so they also bring me stress. If I'm going to confine to offer these types of signings, I will have to invest a hefty chunk of change on a new printer. My concern is with any relationships I may lose if I stop doing these. But I know the weight that I will feel released if I make the decision to stop.
Friday check-in
How was your week?! Please share your wins! Did you implement any new daily habits? How did it go?
1 like • Oct '25
My week was good! I attended a new networking event for businesses in the senior sector. I met a lot of new people and they were very excited to have a notary they can work with! Big win!!
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