A Seed becomes a mighty oak
The most wonderful thing about coaching, and taking players to greater heights is that you really build long lasting relationships along the way... This young man in picture I met when he was grade 0, long story short, at u11, he was dropped to the B team, which one can imagine was earth shattering, his 'mates' in the A team were toxic & arrogant, and his nature was anything but... However, taking him on privately, I shifted his perspective and made him see the amazing opportunity. 'Which would you choose? A team batting at 8, or B team batting at 3?' He was now without question around a more supportive unit, he was now without question the strongest opening batsman in the team, and now more than ever, they depended on him. When the A and B team of this school played each, the game was decided by 6 runs. just to give you an idea that this team was just as good. that same year, or possibly the next he was brought back up to the A team, But he was 1 of 2 players from the school that didn't make the regional team, which again was earth shattering... but this is the character of the man: the following year, he opened the batting for the regional team for the entire week long festival, he ended that week without a batting average, because no one got him out. Based on those performances, he was selected as 1 of 32 out of the entire province of Gauteng in South Africa. (At junior level Gauteng have the strongest set up if nothing has changed since I was around) This young man went on to play for the titans academy at u/19. The key take away: - Time at the crease is more important than the status of the team classification - Heartbreak forces character and growth to take place more than anything else - Keep playing, because we have no idea what can be achieved if we just stick with it. Have a stunning day!